Cocaine

[kally1]

If someone is used to the drug and uses it daily as a pick me up for work or whatever how is it possible to tell if they are on it. I have a close friend who I suspect may still be using it. The thing is with him it's so hard to tell because he normally has a hyper personality. His nose is always running, and he does shady things like pulls the car into a McDonalds or other places to use the restroom. When we go to parties he will dissapear with a group of guys into a room for a while and close the door. When I ask what thats about he says "business" I personally have never tried coke so I really don't know how to tell.
Any help on the subject is appreciated, thanks.

[marcatj]

... when I read it, I could see why she took it wrong.  I'm sure you didn't mean it the way it came out, but when you said "are you following him?" it was kinda weird... i just assumed it was a good friend or a b.f.... but it read like she was some kind of stalker or something..

So just know where it was coming from.  Like I said, I don't think you meant anything by it, it just came across weird, that's all.. Hey - we're human.

We all come across weird sometimes.  And I want you to point it out when my posts are to...

xo
mj

[wait2long]

hi there...how are you?  i am not here to argue or fight, i was just reading the post..i think what she may have been offended about was you asked her if she was "following him?"just simply answering a question i noticed, i am not trying to be sarcastic either.   and just so you know...we have had our differences in the past, but thats as far as it ever went "just differences" i KNOW there are enough people on this forum who NEED you to stay here...so simply leaving because of a few statements made by people who dont really know you yet, would not be a good thing for most...people here actually SEARCH for your posts,  dont let people push you out...and as long as i am allowed to disagree with a decent mannerism with ANYBODYS post (i promised to a truce with Ga Guy...LOL!), i'm not going anywhere...and neither should you!  have a great weekend!

[BonnieAnn]

Again, I appologize. I think I pasted wrong.

Hun, I am in so very much pain nd ,as I said, exhausted. I just give up for the nite. I am trying to follow posts, but I am screwing up on this.

Now, I am REALLY going to bed,

Nite to all you goo folks!!!!!!!!!!!

Hugs, Bonnie

[BonnieAnn]

Please. Let's not start again.

"bonnie
  everything you say seems to be offensive and insulting I've noticed.   You sent this to me. I am sorry, it went right over my head. What did you want me to do?

would you cut and paste all these terrible posts so that I can read them and understand so that I will stop being so insulting please........."

You posted ta to me, what is it you want me to do for you?

You do most certainly help a lot of people. I agree, I think you are sensitive tonight so please. I am going to try and get
some well needed rest.

Let's make tomorrow a new day.."one day at a time". OK?

You have a good nite beachtowel.

Hope to see you tomorrow.

God Bless, Bonnie

[beachtowel]

If you and others truly feel that everything that I say seem sto be offensive and insulting medhelp won't have to ban me from this forum if all of you think this of my posts just say so and I will leave right away.......my intent is not to hurt people and if that is what I'm doing I'm gone for sure.........

[beachtowel]

more than any other member here do I want all this negative to stop and thats the truth to all

[beachtowel]

ktholmes

09/01/07
  everything you say seems to be offensive and insulting I've noticed.  

would you cut and paste all these terrible posts so that I can read them and understand so that I will stop being so insulting please.........

[beachtowel]

bonnie I am calm and I know all the stuff happening in the past few days is doing nobody any good.

guess I am just getting tired of all the sarcastic remarks its wearing on me a little......


but I am calm,  I am asking simple questions I'm sorry but I just don't see how I am hurting people by asking a questions I do it so that I can learn............

[BonnieAnn]

Calm Down. You have good advice, but you get defensive quite quickly.

You know yourself that these are newcomers, this one in particular did not state that she was using. She came here for help. Sometimes we have to be a little more sensitive.  Notice she did not come back?

I know you mean well, and like I said, you do give good advice.

Maybe we could all be a bit more sensitive. After all, we were all newcomers once. And I don't mean to the forum, I mean to addiction/Drugs.

God Blees. Keep us the good work.

[beachtowel]

I think it goes to interpretation don't you?

[ktholmes]

everything you say seems to be offensive and insulting I've noticed.

[Two222]

Follow your instinct on this one. If you are worried enough to question whether he's using or not, then he probably is.

[beachtowel]

I guess the words       "may I ask"  are very offensive and insulting..........

[beachtowel]

I wasn't trying to be a smart a s s I asked that question for a reason I had more info for you speaking from a 10 year cocaine habit of my own.....sorry to have bothered you.............

[slideshow]

You just have to decide whether you are going to take your boyfriend "as is".  If you suspect that he is doing Coke, ASK him.  Honesty is always the best policy although not always the easiest.  I understand why you may have gotten angry about beachs comment, but your defensive posture exhibits that he does have a point. To that, quit "observing him" and talk with him.  There is usually a method to Beach's blunt madness and he does make some good points.

[kally1]

He is the man I am dating and I worry about him because I know he used to use. Is that ok with you? I don't appreciate the smart *** comment really.

[beachtowel]

everything you just described would suggest that he needs some quick privacy and if your snorting cocaine a lot your nose will run..........

May I ask why you would be so curious about someone and there habits are you following him?