Is the the end or the bottom?

[Needhelp59]

I feel so selfish to keep posting on here, but honestly you all are my only lifeline to sanity right now. I am physically violently sick.  I just had a message left on my cell - my brother in law, who has been looking for her since she disappeared - got a call that she has been taken to a hospital in Richmond (about 4 hours from where we live).  Evidently there must have been a car wreck - no idea what her condition is, if she was alone - nothing!  Jesus, Mary and Joseph how much can a person take?  I am not really pitying me, but the kids, my dad, her husband....it is almost more that I can bear.  How in God's name can I sit here at work for another 4 hours?  I want some info so bad!  How can I face the kids without knowing something more?  I hate to ask, but help!   What to do, what to do?  My heart is literally broken.

[confused456]

I hope it goes well. Glad you'e on the right track. Best of luck to you.

[Needhelp59]

think I found the hospital.  They at least let me leave her info and i told them I had some pertinent info to share with them about her history.  They didn't confirm but they didn't deny she was there.  They took my # and hopefully will call me back soon.  I will repost as soon as I hear something.  Thank you ALL for hanging with me thru this.  God bless you all and much love to everyone.

[toxictome]

I hope all goes well...she is being taken care of for now...this may be her bottom and the beginning of something better for her....you stay strong girl...i know this is hard...but you are doing a wonderful job....prayers to you and yours!!!!
( I think it's important to find out where she is...they will need to know her history, especially if she needs surgery or something...plus they will need to deal w/ her wds...

[sickcookie]

Sorry your living this nightmare,but maybe the hospital is a blessing ,if you can get to tell hospital and DR her real story maybe they can get the ball rolling in the right direction,(she is out of control and doing harm to self.If you find which hospital try to get a hold of the  on staff social worker,so sorry ,She is so lucky to have you Stay strong and fight miracles can happen

[Mikeinthesouth]

addiction is crazy!!!! I think it had its own drama for all of us here.

[newmanagment]

jsut home for lunch and noticed y our post. all you can do is pray!! call each hostpital, and try to locate her. they may update you on her condition, but may not due to privacy. right now i would not tell kids, see how bad it is and then decide. it should probably be told to them by daddy. but lets for now just pray she is all right, stay focused on keeping everyone else safe and happy, and let God take it right now. im sorry that it has come to this, but we knew it wasnt heading in the best direction, so lets just hope it is a start of her new life... much love and please keep updating....

[feohmoon]

So sorry this is still going on...you have endured so much as well as the kids, her husband, your dad, etc...we are praying for all of you.
peace

[AlessandrasMom]

Please keep us posted with what is going on.
I responded to your other post, I have been praying for you and your family and will continue to do so.  Hang in there.

[confused456]

I hope you can get some news for your own sanity. Like I said, I will pray for you and those children!

[Needhelp59]

I will try, but I don't even know the name of the hospital - there is MCV which is a university center, and several others in the surrounding area.  I am going to try her husband back to see if he knows which hospital.

Gizzy - you are right, except you couldn't make this stuff up.  I wish it were all a nightmare and I would wake up!  I did get a smile when I saw your post about a date. You are a great guy - be yourself and you'll be fine.  God bless.

[confused456]

Oh Honey, I am so sorry. You have been through so much. Can you call the hospital and ask for info. You are a relative, so they may give you some. Not sure but you are in my prayers!!

[gizzy32]

this is becoming a movie i think. i think you have to worry about yourself and the children right now as hard as that may be. it's sounds like your taking on so much. hope your sis is ok. geeeez. this is crazy