Well, I have no idea if the Pharmacy will follow up any more or not. But, I can say for sure that if your friend continues this, she will get caught eventually, and no doubt lose her job and face some serious criminal charges! It sounds like she has an addiction problem at the very least. I hope you can convince her to get some help before she gets in any deeper! Please let us know if we can help! Good luck!
Oh it put the fear of god into her! No more for her! She wants to talk to her pastor about it but is worried they will report her...can they??? I would think since they faxed the doc they hadn't contacted the police until they heard back from drs office??? So hopefully they just drop it. What got her was she had been filling under her husbands name as he did have surgery with that dr then she filled for the exact thing a week later under her own name. I'm still surprised they even gave her the script if they thought it was bad?
She is lucky to have a friend like you.You seem very concerned for her
You should ask your friend to come in and talk with us. Maybe we can help her...
I don't think if she talks to her Pastor they will report her! I think there are laws about confidentiality. I can't say for sure. Perhaps the Pharmacy is suspicious because they have the same last name, and address info? I really hope she quits this and gets the help she really does need! This is very serious and it could take some time before it comes back to bite her! The Pharmacy could continue to investigate. I'm not trying to scare you, but this is really serious! There are other members here who have found themselves in a similar situation, and it isnt pretty! Good luck, I wish her all the best! Hopefully, others with some experience in this will weigh in!
Well the first step is acceptance but I'm sure you already a suspect ere's no "friend" wasn't sure of the level of anonymity .,I,do need help. I had a pretty major sx in 2011 and that's when it started. I was given liquid oxy due to the type which hits you even more than tabs. This was for tabs though. Sine my 1st sx I have had some pain issues and 3 more surgeries in the last year. I had stopped taking anything last June after being on oxy for a year and amazingly didn't even have withdrawals! I was clean until my last surgery in November. My spouse also had sx so there was plenty of oxy in the house. I was on liquid oxy AND liquid dilauded. But when mine ran out I used up his. Then realized i needed to replace his in case he needed it...he didn't even use 60 tabs for his ankle sx. This is the first time I went as far as writing an rx. I mean the first surgery. I have written a few now and oh my god do I regret it!! I am so scared. I have a 4 and 8 year old...I am just hoping I caught the only fax that will come through....now time to get clean again...crying.
Ahhhh Sweety, I'm so sorry! We have all done things we are ashamed of because of addiction! The important thing is to stop and get some help! Keep posting here for support and advice! Sending you hugs!
Yes we probably all were thinking that your friend was you but it's really good that you told us. I can only imagine the fear that you have right now.
I would suggest that you stop using right away. Go to NA or AA and in case anything happens it will show that you are serious about getting clean.
Are you ready to quit now? If you are we can help you through it.
Thank you. I keep praying that I managed to avoid getting I trouble for this but trust that I am NEVER doing that again. I'm sure I am red flagged anyway now...I am getting clean and need to focus on my babies. I remember how much better I felt to not be a slave anymore to the pills last time and want that again..I just keep looking at my driveway waiting for the police to pull in any moment. I have actually been texting with the dr I work for and his PA today as a "feeler" and they don't "act" as if they have been contacted. I really want to talk to my pastor tomorrow ...I got baptized this last year and feel like I need Him more now than ever. I just wish I knew if this was going to come back and bite me so I can just move on with out watching over my shoulder. I can't even imagine what my husband would do.
What do you think made them suspicious?
Can I ask how safe this site is if I share info?? Is it monitored by people That would report me??? Not at I put any info on but you know how technology is!!!
Don't share any personal info, like your real name, or too many details where someone could figure you out! Lots of people have been in your similar situation. Just be sensible and careful! I feel that this site is very safe! You can share! Lots of great advice and support here, and you will not be judged!
As to what happened...
There were some Rx's written for my husband and then I decided to write it in my name instead..."to switch it up" .....clearly not thinking. I did all the don'ts....same pharmacy...exactly a week apart...paid cash..no insurance..then all of a sudden there's one for me..the pharmacist actually asked me why I was getting a script from my husbands dr..I explained he had done his surgery...not a lie and then said he was now going to do mine..she asks when..I say Monday and even throw in there technical info as I do work for her and know all that info anyway...she says you don't have ins for med bit do you have it for sx?? I even told her well I do I just have to get reimbursed unless I use their pharmacy...again not a lie!!! I was in too deep to walk away at that point!! Especially since I work there!!!! I knew I had to get to the fax to check it just in case and yep! They faxed a copy of the rx and a notice asking for verification..even said.."need to verify this is your pt, her husband has been seen now she says she is having surgery too. P,ease verify and fax back" so I wrote on the bottom of it "above info is correct, thank you and put the PA's name and dea number on it. I also then left a message with the pharmacy stating we had received the fax and that it was in fact correct information..stated that her husband is a pt too but has been released so there should only be the rx for her. And left my direct extension if they had more questions as it doesn't say my name on it but the dr's and PA's
Dear lord was all that worth it??? Absolutely NOT!!!! trust me that I am not treating this like look what I got away with...I hate that this is happening???
Its lucky they didnlt arrest you when you show up to pick up the script. Forging prescriptions is a Felony, your Pastor may feel the ned to report it since there are laws being broken. I don't think their are confidentiality laws with Pastors. My suggestion is do not ever, ever do that again and maybe find a new place to work?
Using the same pharmacy was the mistake, I think.,and not having your story prepared before going in. Best not to go back to that pharmacy, the big chains like Walgreens get the most suspicious, because they see it so,so much.
Like I said too...I am surprised she even gave me the rx and didn't come up with a reason to make me come back for it!
I am sure it's a huge wake up call for you. Many of us have done things we regret in order to get our pills. I was never in the position of being able to do what you did but I can imagine I would have if I was able to.
It's a horrible addiction and it takes a lot of work to stop using.
Are you planning on tapering or just quitting cold turkey?
There are different things that can help ease the withdrawals.
Wow that's crazy, I'm sure if I knew how to write a script I might have done it myself, it's amazing the depths we will sink to just to get a fix
Praying for you. I have never done that, but with my medical background, pretty sure that fax back was the end of it. They suspected, the got an answer. They run a business, but not a detective agency.
Now, please forgive me here, but in a couple weeks, a month, knowing you got away with it... You see my point. You have to want to do it, not be scared into it.
So you got lucky like me and found this board. So along with whatever you do there, post here. Quit now.
Omg girl I'm on day 4, but these members are getting me through. They can you too. Good Luck, hope to see you posting your recovery! :)
Praying for you. I have never done that, but with my medical background, pretty sure that fax back was the end of it. They suspected, the got an answer. They run a business, but not a detective agency.
Now, please forgive me here, but in a couple weeks, a month, knowing you got away with it... You see my point. You have to want to do it, not be scared into it.
So you got lucky like me and found this board. So along with whatever you do there, post here. Quit now.
Omg girl I'm on day 4, but these members are getting me through. They can you too. Good Luck, hope to see you posting your recovery! :)
Thank you Barb. I know what you mean by the feeling of getting away with it means I may just be tempted to go back...but I swear I want it. People talk about near death experiences and their lives flash before their eyes...I feel like that has happened with me. I look at my beautiful babies and think oh my god what if I have to leave them and go to jail? How could I do that to them?? For that!! And for me!! I will beat this. I am so glad I found this site as I need all the support I can get.
Now Brit has me too worried to tell my pastor but I need his support through this. Maybe I just tell about the addiction and leave it at that? I just don't want to lie to him and sometimes omission of the truth is the same thing!
Not to scare you but, you are better off to come clean to the Dr or the Dr's office.
It is very possible that he/she will find out.
I am currently being charged with several felony counts of prescription fraud and I can tell you, if I had it to do again, I would have came clean before I let it get out of hand and then was arrested.
If you do get away with this, it likely will not be the last time you will go to these extremes to get the drugs.
Message me if you want to talk.
Sarah
You might ask your pastor first if you are able to confess something serious to him, and if he is able to keep it confidential or under what circumstance he would have to break your confidence! Talk to him before you give him any details! That way you will know!
I will tell you, ther but for the Grace of God, go I. I can remember feeling so desperate when I ran out of pills, I probably would have done anything to get them! I would have bought them off the street, if I knew how! I was lucky, I didn't! You have made a great decision to quit and reach out for help. I understand, and I feel for you!