Yes, well that was quite the "selective" paste. Bravo. Problem is, what you left out is more important than that which you left in. From this missive, you forgot a wee rule or three of journalism. Remember context, consistency and be acutely aware of cliches.
First off to all: After today, I will no longer carry on this on-line bickering any further. It is entirely unfair to all you terrific folks who are fighting so hard for your sobriety. We need focus, not bickering. Rodey can "***** slap" me over the fiber-optic lines if she needs to.
I too am of the ilk that I dont get into cat/dog
fights, but she is totally outta line and i must admit
I am sorely tempted to do as we women say and "*****
slap her"
Then do it! She is oft at medhelp, thus easy to find & she LIKES people who stand up for themselves. Meaning, she'd think the world of you.
Motz posts on a # of addiction boards I frequent and
his honesty has helped me recover more than once.
But does that mean his way is the only way? The fact that it's worked for you & him (& countless others) proves the approach works. I like him very much but his "pushy" approach does not work for many ppl. They need to be coddled & urged along. As in, Hey, both camps are going to flunk out but as we say @ MH @ DA so often, you need to find what works for you. Much as I like & respect Motz, I can tell you that in my feistiest days, that "just quit" approach would have sent me sprinting to the nearest pharmaceutical factory for a morphine drip, M-16 in tow!
I think it would behoove you,
To obey you, between shining your shoes, mowing the line, preparing all the food and taking care of your kids? Thanks!
in my MOST humble opinion,
Oh, pullleeeeez
to tell that "cult" following you have at drugabuse.com
WHERE? F grp I assume?
10 visits to opiate site.
The fiorinal grp has been very tight since Sept. There is no one else at DA in my cult...sorry! Unless they're in & I've never heard of them. I'm trying to help Casey & Mossy in my own way & of course I like Motz - very much.
That their responses to someone who
simoke has an opinion, like all assholes, that their
visious attacks were out of line.
I don't know what a simoke is...? I did get the context but you needn't write about yoursrlf in such a fashion!
Had I been motz, I woulda done more than he in his
response to your friend.
But Motz has class. He knows how to rise above such PALTRY matters.
Like I said, I havent (yet) posted on drugabuse.com.
Waiting for the next millennium? Why not? Espec. now?
but KAT needs a dressing dowm
Says who?
(Firstly, she is wrong.
About what specifically?
Secondly, she hasnt read Motz's words w/ an open mind.
And you know this definitively based on what?
He simply wants what is best for a kid (casey) who
could possibly be his own kids' ages..
He does & so do I. Go check my posts to her & Mossy. THAT and for someone not to waste money w/ online pharmacies.
That's just fine but maybe for a "gentler" approach followed by loads of ppl, he should check JR's posts on this very matter twds the end of our most recent thread.
If that is a crime, then perhaps I do not respect your
opinions as much as I thought.
Wanting the best for a kid who could be his kid? Me too. Urging ppl to never use on-line pharmacies. Me too only I'm more vehement than JR. Such being the criteria, it is indeed perhaps a blessing you don't respect my opinions.
I will look for your response to KAT and her nonsense
and drugabuse.
Is that a threat?
I would post there myself, but I don't
think my words would mean ****. What you say, however,
she worships.
Motz has been posting on the boards I frequent for at
least a year, including my fave-
medhelp.org.
Fair enough. But I suspect even Motz would say you needn't fight his battles for him. Maybe I'm wrong! But goodness, it's one thing to stand up for someone and quite another to do so with utter, complete and blind vehemence.
I look forward to reading your words at drugabuse.
Don't you mean *your* words? Assuming I was tyhe compliant sort.
I feel sorry for a man who loves his family so.. an
cares for others to be taken to task like that. It
shouldnt bother me, but it does.
All earned based on your pity, his love of family and that he shouldn't be taken to task for that. Wow. Based on that criteria, you are going to be one busy lassie at medhelp alone.
Why feel sorry for a man who loves his family so?
Who feels sorry for him??? Not me. He sounds very happy but do you think he's the only caring individual who's been taken to task?
I'm not saying don't care or try to help but frankly, this contretemps has upset you far more than he.
Dr. Sigmeund would suggest you examine the reasons why.
Dancin'