could someone please help me

[Casey75]

please please I am looking for someone to help me,
13 years ago I am having headaches daily doctors can't figure it out why, weeks months go by I am suffering severe migraine, 2013 back surgery(developing more pain and both hips)
long story short I am having a panic attack joint pain high blood pressure  178 over112 with taking blood pressure medication sometimes I am cuffing so much I feel like elephant sit on my chest it swelling whole body very powerful  I am 39 years old female looking for answer suffering all this years Dr to Dr and specialist finally
fibromyalgia. Okey
I am looking for treat it, one day nurse call me I have to see rheumatologist meaning they are looking for rheumatoid arthritis okey Take A month's To see doctor Looking for Final result Anyway Doctor told me  more likely have lupus I felt my life is of side Down I have 4kids 3boys and  little girl boys are 19.17.15 years old my daughter is only4

[Rebooting2]

I feel for u when I read your problems it really makes u question your own , so I think u have helped me actually, that said u first have to find out what the problem is then try and treat it ... So keep seeing doctors get different opinions and maybe look stuff up in line like ( what could be the cause of this or that ... I'm not a doctors nor claiming to know anything but from experience and exp of people around me sometimes dr don't think of all the deases and sickness out there ... And there are many just study your own symptoms and then show your dr or dr s  and let them know it might be this or that just invade they have missed something I don't think it will hurt ... But never self diagnose and then do self treatment I'm just simply saying look up info yourself and if u find anything that u thing sounds right and your doctor has not picked up on it show him or her ..... Good luck I hope u find out how to help yourself

[jifmoc]

So sorry for your pain. We can't give actual medical advice on here. I'm sorry. Unless I'm misunderstanding you, what is your actual question?