very disturbing news...not helping...

[hope08]

good morning everyone....
so saturday night and yesterday were bad, more mentally i think. let me break down the situation a bit. my boyfriends brother, well his exgirlfriend is pretty much crazy. she is bi polar, seems to have no mother instinct what so ever, and used drugs with him even after he od'ed and almost died....so she is very selfish to say the least. she drops her kids off to anyone who will watch them so she can go out and get all messed up. well my boyfriends parents love this little girl (as do we) so we always had her come over and stay, to be around people that actually showed love to her...her family gives her a hard time always saying "this little red headed stepchild brat..."
well a few years ago, when the father of this girl broke up with her, she went all crazy, saying that macy (the little girl) told her that daddy was molesting her...took him to court and all kinds of stuff. he didn't get charged with anything, but she still went through it all. then sat night we find out that her family members (aunts, uncles) have been molesting her, in very bad ways. makes me want to just punch them in the face or something. but anyway, macy told all of us that it was so and so and they have been doing it for awhile....she was all messed up (physically), we called the hospital and sherriff. they didn't do much at that time. then we call the actual mother and what does she say? " you are just trying to ruin my weekend! i am giong to kill you and just blame it on your brother!!"....
what the ****!?!?
this woman is crazy. so after that i just got all stressed out feeling, agitated, and angry. not sure if anyone has ever read 'a million little pieces' but he always talks of 'his fury' ....mine isn't that serious, but instead of getting sad, i tend to get angry more. it is strange.
but anyway, prayers and good thoughts would be nice.
no little 4 year old girl should think they have to go through something like that, it is so sickening.

thanks for listening

[hope08]

thanks for the feedback you guys...haven't really been able to talk to many people about the whole situation.  the whole family is a bunch of crazies that just want to party it up. i thought that if i called childrens services they would have to do something....the biggest thing i am worried about is what if they talk macy into saying it wasn't her family and someone else? can anyone intervene even if the child doesnt admit it or is forced to lie about it? my boyfriends parents would love to have her a lot, well they do i guess. but i don't know if they would/could adopt her or anything. her mother is just straight crazy that none of us really know what to or expect from her. i mean the little girl is a little bad, like most children, but i think it makes it worse with the situation at hand. the only time she is good, not freaking out and yelling and actually sleeping well is at my boyfriends's parents house....it just wears me out. i cant understand or fathom WHY people do this to little kids...makes no sense whatsoever.....

[flmagi]

Yes, document every little thing and call family services and put in a complaint. By law, they must check it out. Keep documenting and keep calling. Don't give up on the kid because the system moves slow.
I'd be taking that child from her and daring her to do something about it.  Oh, it makes me sooo mad.AAAHHHHHHH

[Pill Popper in AL]

OMG! this is so sad and make ME want to just beat the hell out of her!!! my niece is 4 years old and I can't post here what i would do to someone if they did that to her. please take MICHAEL_777 advice and document EVERYTHING!!!! She will definetely be in my prayers.
pill

[MICHAEL_777]

That is awful and sickening.  I know all to well how the bi-polar people work.  My ex-wife is bi-polar and a total nightmare.  I am a peace loving person, but those that know me well enough know not to mess with those that I love.  I have very few of those type of people in my life and will fight to the death to keep them safe.  My ex's family knows this about me, so I pray for their sake that they remember it and keep their hands off my daughter.  I hate to say it, but CPS may need to get involved and a case started.  That little girl needs out of that environment and with a family that loves her.  Take that crazy bit** back to court and fight for full custody leaving her with only supervised visits.  Document everyone of her outbursts on video and sound recordings, mark the dates on the calendar, etc.  Show how she just drops the child off everywhere she can and that she doesn't want the responsiblitly.  Build a case and take it to the courts.  I wish and pray you all the best.  Love and Strength!

[road2recovery]

Gosh i read that story, and it it the exact same of a person i know well...I mean to a tee....Come to find out the little girl was getting molested by her moms drug head friends..
All she cared about was partying,,,
wew---I would say just make sure that little girl is safe..
As far as the situation you know how that goes, she will have to see the light..How old is this mother??
Prayers going your way
r2r