weird sex while using crack

[melacholy]

My husband is a crack user.  I just found out about a year ago how bad he needed it one night.  I have a hunch that he spent all of his $500 Christmas bonus last year on crack.  The reason I am concerned is because he likes to have weird sex when he is high.   I do not know how long he has been using.  He was a truck driver for ten years and I thought he was clean but am not sure now. He now works at a local trucking company.   I would find sex tapes in his big truck when he came home.  Now I am thinking that he has been doing things on the road.  His sister is a co-crack smoker.  She and I do not get along.  A few weeks ago his sister and him went on an over night binge I guess.  She told me that my husband wanted her to participate in weird sex acts with African American people. She has been known to lie so I do not know if it is the truth or not. It really freaked me out because he has tried to get me to do stuff with African American people also. I would not do it.  He has always wanted to do weird stuff.  I have participated but not with other people.  I caught him at a African American house last night.  I pitched a fit to get him home.  I am worried because he has not wanted to do any thing weird with me and if he has been smoking crack, who has he been with.  I also know if I leave him he will wind up in the gutter.  This situation is making me so depressed.  It is keeping me from concentrating on my job.  My deceased mother was a prescription drug addict.  My oldest son had or still has a drug problem.  What am I to do?  Someone please help me.  I am losing my mind.  

[deeandaj]

I had to rid my husband of 10 years bcz he wants crack. Honey not even 30 yrs should make you put up with all these addicts. You will be dead and they will keep on smoking crack and probably sell all your stuff. You have to look at the whole picture. I have a 5 mnth preemie baby and all he knows is his momma.daddy dont give a care. yes they have sex with anybody.so you must be careful. Im sorry for the situation but you cant use your heart with an addict. Use your head.

[Bad_Obsession]

Troublegirl...this post is like 4 years old...I don't think these members are even here anymore.  ;)

[troublegirl]

Hmmmm....what's disgusting u the most..the fact that he's smoking crack and cheating? Or is it the fact that he is smoking crack..and creeping w/ black women? Answer please answer my questions I don't wanna jump to conclusions ttyl

[SophieShine]

Hey guys this is a post from 2007!!!

Heartbroken25 why don't you copy and paste your post and start your own thread. You will have more chance to get an accurate answer.
Best of luck. Sophie.

[DavaSage]

I had a friend in 1984 that was operating his dads drive in liquor store, and supporting a $400 day coke habit by dealing. Crossed some Columbians, they drove in one Friday nite, ordered a 5th of Vodka and shot him in the face over a $30 large debt. Hes gone.

Meth, etc all have the same effects on people.

He was paranoid, carried a 357 and once shot it in his apratment at a squirrel thru his storm glass door shattering it.

Said someone was "breaking in".

He was insane. And it cost him his life.

[DavaSage]

Your friend is suffering from a sickness of the soul. If you are religious, contact me I will pray for you both.

Seriously.

I am not going to preach to anyone, but I know of what I speak.