Ascites and bleeding problems including bleeding from rectal varices is unfortunately a sign of liver failure.For someone who is 31 years old its quite early.
He needs to go to ER ASAP.If he is bleeding from rectum he probably has oesophageal varices too....
I am sorry.....
Good luck
Walter
it certainly sounds like he may be scared and is taking out his frustrations thisway when one is scared or has fear that somthing is wrong this is the way some take it out they are not mad at you but this is serious he needsa docor in the worse way that is the way my husbands cancer started in his urine
my husband was an alcoholic he stopped because he could not drink when they started treatment lost luck Jo
It's hard to see someone you love on a self destructive path . I've been going down that road with my daughter . Maybe he suspects something bad and he's scared to have the doctor confirm . Try calling the AA help line 800-274-8435
they may be able to lead you in a good direction . Don't nag and get him on the defensive , just show him you love him and care .
good luck