just let your sister know that you are there for her she will soon know and just stay away if she asks why tell her then dont go around and make both of you misiberable your sister will worry you will worry wait she will need you soon
lots of luck i know what a sister means especially now that mine is gone
lots luck jo
MY PLEASURE FOR U KEEP THE FAITH
I will bring up alanon to my sister. I think she needs a wake up call. I may wait until after the holidays if I have enough nerve to do it. Thanks for the advice.
you sound like a dynamite women with a tremendous heart!!!
with that being said denial is the key to fighting this disease!!! if i were you no matter how difficult it may be stay away from the situation for the holidays!!! even though its your sister there is agroup called allinon which helps women understand the alcholic husband its a very very strong networking group that can help big time!!!! as you said its sometimes harder for the spouse top accept the fact that the one they love has this dis-ease guilt and remorse is a lack of self esteem and or fear!!!!
fondly ,
gregg