I totally understand what it's like to have an adult son who mistreats you. I brought this on myself. The question is, how to extricate myself? He doesn't regulate his emotions & flies off the handle at the drop of a hat. As much as I love him, I have no wish to be around him. No matter how I draw the boundaries, he shows up on my doorstep to make my life miserable.
My new husband who is older than is in pain over my abnormal relationship with my son. If I could live with myself, I'd do just about anything to excise my son from my life. This doesn't mean I don't love him. If he's in a bad mood, he is capable of calling me a "fck--ing *****." I don't know how I got here, but the point is, I need out. Any suggestions?