Hey guys, this is my first post in the forum, but i'm looking for some help / support!
Long story short, my boyfriend of two years, suddenly started having panic attacks, and bad anxiety, about 6 months ago. After trial and error w/ lexapro, he has been on Zoloft for about 3 months now, and it seems to have restored his energy, making him able to work (the thing hes most concerned over.) However, w/ that he has had a ton of side effects:
Including, being very distant, periods of days where hes happy and emotional, and the next he has no feeling (or it seems that way to me) what so ever, also adding to the list, his sex drive has changed significantly. We used to be very sexually active, atleast 6 times a week, so almost everyday, but now it usually happens once a week. He primarly states the problem is, it is really hard for him to achive an orgasm when we have sex. He has no problem getting off on his own, and usually sex ends in him manually stimulating himself. According to several websites this problem only occurs in 11% and there isnt much information surrounding it.
& Just to touch on the withdrawn emotion, I can't find much on that either. I would like to say I am very outgoing and it takes a lot to upset me; however, with my boyfriends emotions constantly changing, I feel like I'm on a roller coaster with my feelings as well. I know that he doesn't mean to purposely be distant, ie. being in the car for two hours having a one sided conversation with myself, but at this point i'm not sure what to do.
I know he should really talk to his doctor more about his side effects, but I believe hes scared to go back to how he was if they switch his medication and it doesn't work. His doctor also doesn't seem to be too concerned with his well being, because he told him about several side effects and the doctor told him just to wait to take his medicine on the nights he wants to have sex, but there are more underlying issues that i'm afraid aren't being addressed.
Any information, or even links you have would greatly be appricated.