I've been suffering with serious anxiety and depression pretty much my whole life, and I lurk around here often, but usually it's due to overwhelming worry about minor things...however, I now have a serious issue and it's eating me alive. All I do is cry all day thinking about it, I can't even talk to anyone about it in person...so here I go:
About a year ago my mother made me commit a crime with her because she needed money. It wasn't that serious but still, it was a crime. I told her numerous times I didn't want to do it. She yelled at me, told me I was a bad daughter, that I always bring the family down and that she's a single mother and needed help. At the time I was already under an enormous amount of stress due to school, so I did as she said. (These are not excuses, I've been studying law for the past 5 years so if anything, I know the serious consequences of my actions)
Now, I am done school and with more time to think, I realize what i've done and I feel like my stomach is turning upside down all the time. I hate myself for doing as she said, even more, I hate my mom. How could she do this to me when she knew how hard I was studying in school and how hard I was trying to provide a better future for US. I would do anything to move out. But I can't get a job because of my depression, I can barely talk to people. Even with all of my depression, I've been extremely motivated to pursue my career and now that this has happened, I've lost all motivation because I know if I get charged, my career will be over anyway.
I have a psychiatrist that I'll be seeing in a week. He's likely going to tell me to start taking medication again because I stopped during school. I'm going to follow his directions this time because I really understand now that I NEED to be on medication. But how can I talk to him about this? What can he say? I was wrong and no one can tell me otherwise. How do I make myself feel better when I literally want to give up everything and live in a shelter, just to get away.
Do you think i'm justifed to be mad at my mom? and should I move out?