Hi, so when it comes to anxiety, for me its a little bit of social anxiety, its not so extreme but I feel like I have a really hard time starting conversations. I know that I am ultimately the only person who can change my habits, but I would really like some advice on this subject. For example, in my working environment, I work with one of my best friends who I feel totally comfortable with and I can talk to her anytime I feel like. The rest of the staff members Im trying to build stronger relationships with, and I have already hung out with them outside of work a few times. I have absolutely no problem conversing when I have a had a little to drink, I just open up and loosen up a lot more. This is the person I want to be like when Im sober, though. Why can I only open up when I drink? My main thing when Im at work is i really dont know what to talk about, and even if I do start a conversation, I dont know what to do when it dies down.
A little advice anyone? Thanks.