given girlfriend STD

[disaster2]

sum up.. sex only ever once unprotected.. 14 months later got a g/f.. literally is perfect.was drunk and gave me oral 3 times.. now got the flu a few weeks after doing it. terrified ive given her something.(HIV) i know thats unlikely but IS POSSIBLE.  currently waiting for docs result of STD check.

[Suzyq0826]

Try to relax and don't worry until you have something to worry about..I know it's esier said than done, but the odds are with you.
Hang in there!

[disaster2]

but its the old classic few weeks after sexual encounter that is a sign.. she has everything ahead of her.. is perfect.. typical for me.. had real bad unbringing.. things were hard , then seemed perfect till this. would be typical for me now if she contacts it

[Suzyq0826]

I agree with Snooze.....do you have any reason to believe that in your one unprotected encounter you contracted HIV? If not, wait for the test results and try to relax...you can't change the outcome by worrying over it, and the liklihood is slim. The flu is the flu and I wouldn't read any more into it than that at this point.
Good luck
Suzy

[snoozies43]

Just food for thought...perhaps also posting your conerns in the HIV forum would yield more answers.

However, I think in the meantime, try to keep yourself busy and don't project the outcome of the results. relax, as you said the likelyhood of this happening is not high. Yes it may be the outcome, but you can't do anything until you know from the results. So stay calm and just try to keep your focus on some good things for now.

Good luck,
Snooze