I'm feeling pretty lousy. I'm finding it difficult to grasp the reality of being Bipolar and having other issues. Having BPD I is crippling my life and it just gets worse as I get older. I don't want to have to be heavily medicated until I die, I don't want to be in therapy until I die, and I don't want to anticipate episodes until I die. I want to have a life and this isn't living. I want to have finished school but my health just interrupts my goals. It's hard for me to find worth in all of this. I'm stuck in a situation that most people don't understand, don't want to understand, or are incapable of understanding. It's hard dealing with "life issues" at whatever age you're at and then there is this ... and other junk.
Why should I continue to buy contacts/glasses every other month because I'm losing my vision? Why should I keep trying to leave myself notes and even ask people to remind me of appointments or something important when my memory is rapidly going down hill? Why am I letting people tell me that they're sorry, they don't know what is wrong? Everything about me is supposedly healthy and they just can't wrap their head around why everything is deteriorating. I want to have long term goals, none of these stupid short term goals, like waking up. Life is hard, I get that. I also understand it's not fair. But this is out of hand and don't tell me that you haven't questioned whether all of this is worth it or not. We all question our significance at one point or another.
I don't have anyone. My only friend has stuck by me as well as he could and he's awesome for all the effort he's put into our friendship, but it's wearing him down. He can't say anything to me because he just can't understand and that's not his fault ... but my aspirations are far from him. I don't know if I can survive from extreme loneliness. Everyone tells me to separate myself as far from my family as possible, but I've tried that. Just because I'm not near them doesn't mean that they aren't capable of belittling me. I am financially dependent upon them because of my health. I can't live with them because my father is an abusive alcohol who has verbalized his desire that I should be dead, etc. And this is where I'm at. Why am I doing all of this? Maybe my dad is right. Maybe this is his shining moment as a parent - being honest. I know it may seem dumb for me to accept what he said as justified - it took me a bit to get over it and I'm still harboring sadness deep inside, but breaking it down, it doesn't seem as horrible as it did before.
I don't know. I'm experiencing suicidal tendencies but I'm not suicidal, if that makes sense. I just don't want to have anything to do with anything or anyone. I'm already a generous person, but what I really want, if I decide all of this is worth something, is just to live in a small place. I'm a minimalist and I can't stand the emptiness of my apartment.
YES, I know I should talk to my therapist and psychiatrist about medication and feelings, blah, blah, blah. I'm not an idiot, so please, if you respond to my vent - don't preach to me something I already know.