You didn't mention a family history of bipolar. Regardless behaviours can also be learned. Just because there is a history of the illness doesn't necessarily mean he will have it too. I am from a long line of mentally ill people and yet my son, who is a teeneager now is absolutely fine.
There is no harm in taking your little one to see a child psychologist though. Also you boy may say he is really looking forward to having a brother or sister and yet still feel angry/insecure.
I hope everything turns out well for you all. Look after yourself too.
Let me clear a few things up:
I don't necessarily want to 'label' my child as bipolar, I am just curious if this could be a possibility seeming he has quite the family history with it. Not only is my ex bipolar, but so is my brother, and my father was as well.
I don't want to medicate my child. I would like to learn new ways and techniques to better deal with his outbursts. I want to learn how to help him learn how deal with his anger in a more constructive way.
I have family telling me that by bringing him to a child psychologist would be like giving up on him, admitting I don't know how to parent him. For that, I am beginning to resent the people who have said that.
As far as expecting another baby, my son has been involved in everything that has to do with the new addition. We've given him books on what to expect, on what it was like when he was in my 'tummy'. He's been to all but one doctor appointment with me, he has been way excited to be a big brother. He even enjoys going to the baby section in stores to see what he can buy as a present for his new baby brother or sister.
I appreciate all of your comments in regards to this. I really think at this point a psychologist would be the way to go. My thougts are, if anything, maybe he or she can help me get to the bottom of this behavior and help me manage it better. The best possible outcome, in my opinion, is they will tell me this behavior is normal (which I really don't think so). I just hope my decision in this does not alienate those family members who think that I am giving up on my son. I just know I need to do what I feel is right.
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I would be very reticent in labelling a child as young as three with such a serious mental illness as bipolar. Children of that age often have tantrums, it's a normal part of growing up. Also if you are expecting another child it could well be that he feels jealous and worried about his place in the family. It might help to discuss the baby with him and let him know he is still special etc.
it's too early i suppose to judge whether he is bipolar or not, and it's unfair to label him so at this very early age. I would keep an eye on him long enough then consult a psychologist, but never a pdoc now because it isn't good to put him on meds at his age. Perhaps he watches TV because you see all sort of odd things there, things which children like to imitate. Violence exists in societies whether western or eastern and children witness this so it reflects on them automatically, because life is getting stressful for adults and equally for kids
It is hard to say what a baby remembers or not. But, if you were in an abusive home during his development it could have affected him in some way. Children are very in tune with emotions. I'm guessing he doesn't see his father any more? Do check into everyone who is caring for him at any time during his day. He has to be getting these things from somewhere.
I hope you can find answers, it sounds like he is really having a tough time.
If he experienced any abuse directed at him that could easily cause this. Also find out what the conditions are at daycare. To me this more sounds like the traumatic after affects of experiencing abuse. I would suggest that you take him to a child psychologist and see what they think is best for him.