Hello! I am new to this community. I am not the one with cirrhosis - my sister is the one with this condition. She drank every day from the time she was 14 yrs. old until she was admitted to the hospital 5 yrs. ago at death's door at the age of 54. We don't live close to each other, and we haven't seen too much of her over all these years, but we speak on the phone at least once a month. Anyway, when she was admitted to the hospital, her friend said she was so full of ascites that she looked like she was 12 months pregnant with triplets. Her friend had to force her to go to the ER that day because my sister was in so much denial, she didn't see the problem. While in the hospital, she had to be transfused many times because her platelet levels were so low. She was vomiting blood for many months before that and was bleeding from the "bottom end" too. She was diagnosed with ESLD at that time according to her friend. My sister never admitted to any of this. We found out through her friend. We were forbidden to go and see her and I guess she took care of herself when she was released from the hospital. I know it has not been easy for her. She was a walking skeleton for over a year after her hospitalization. She had a weird color and her eyes were yellow for over a year too. I don't know how she looks now.
Fast forward 5 yrs. and we still don't know too much about her health. We don't know if she relapsed and went back to drinking here and there or not during this time. (But we have suspected it.) She was only on a low sodium, no-alcohol diet up until about 6 months ago when her doctor put her on a diuretic and an even more restricted salt diet. (maybe other meds too, but she only spoke of the diuretic.) She has had some kidney problems - but I don't really know the details. She has been up and down with mood swings and has had problems keeping a job for any length of time. I suspect that she's had some HE problems at times, but she may be on medication for this now because she seems to be more level in her moods. I can only guess. I have been caring for other family members for the past 5 yrs, and I now care for my elderly mother. It is difficult for me to go see her, but I don't think she wants me to see her. So we talk occasionally on the phone. She never comes up to see us and this is so sad for my mother.
My question is this: What is the criteria for her if she will need a liver transplant? She never went to AA after her hospitalization 5 yrs. ago. She felt she could do it on her own after drinking for over 40 yrs. I have no idea what her MELD score would be, and I have no idea what her health is like. But I have the little "clues" here and there that she may be progressing to a new stage.