We Need HELP with our dog!!!
Background:
We have a very stubborn, male, Beagle named Romeo. We've had him for almost thee years. He was overweight when we took him in, and he's lost some weight while with us, but not a lot. Romeo is about 10 years old. He dreams and snores loudly. He has a seizure about once every 3-4 months, but the vets don't know why. Other than that, he's our sweet, “old-man” pup.
Now, we adopted another Beagle, Bella, from the Beagle Rescue a year and a half ago. She's small and dainty, girl, compared to the beast that Romeo is. While she's about Romeo's age, she does not have the issues he has and still likes to play chase and tug-of-war, (while Romeo stands and bays at her playing, but is too big and lazy to actually run around WITH her.) Still, Bella has been very good for Romeo and for our family.
In the past, we had trouble with Romeo and Bella peeing in the house during the night or while we were away from the house. So we talked about it and decided the dogs would have to be kenneled during the night and whenever we were gone. Originally, we had them in separate kennels, but Bella would still pee in her's because she still had space to go pee in one corner and use the remainder of the space to lay down and sleep. We now have BOTH dogs in ONE kennel during the night (and don't worry; the kids saw to marrying them first so they wouldn't be “shacking-up”, unmarried. Bella wore a dress with a train and Romeo wore a shirt and tie. My son (5 yrs old) officiated. With both dogs sitting side-by-side, Alex started in with, “Dearly beloved, we are gathered here.......”, and Romeo got up and wandered off. HAHA!!) We eventually got though it (with the help of snacks), but rest assured, our dogs are not living in sin. ) Now, it IS crowded in the kennel with the two of them, though for the most part, they've been able to work-it-out so that both of them can lay down in there.
So anyway, they share a kennel at night and things, for the most part, have gone well. Now, it IS crowded in the kennel with the two of them, though for the most part, they've been able to work-it-out so that both of them can lay down in there. All-in-all, they seem to prefer being close and there have been no more accidents to wake up to, or come home to.
While Bella is SUCH a good girl, Romeo bays every night when we first put them to bed, just like our kids do when they are young and testing the boundaries at bedtime. We go up and deeply, fiercely, growl the words, “ Romeo!! You LAY DOWN and go NIGHT NIGHT.”...and we stay with him until he complies, then he's generally okay for the rest of the night. Lately, Romeo has been baying in the middle of the night.....not like he's hurting or alerting us of an intruder....but that he had needs that could no longer be ignored. Last night, it happened at midnight and again at 4:40am. My husband took care of it at midnight and I got to deal with the 4:40am call. It's happened like this several times before in the last two weeks.
Now, because of Romeo's age, obesity and his history of seizures, I've gone-ahead and gotten Romeo and Bella OUT of the kennel at the 4-5am call. Romeo RUNS downstairs to the water bowl and proceeds to drink a whole bowl (and sometimes more!) of water without hardly stopping to breath!! And all-the-while, Bella is fine and doesn't need to drink much, if at all. Now folks, what is THAT about??! My first thought is that Romeo may have become (at least) borderline diabetic. Thoughts?
When Romeo is done drinking, I go ahead and take them outside to pee. It's dark, it's cold, it's windy and I hate it, but moreover, I can't bear the thought of putting them BACK in the kennel without allowing them relieve themselves, first. Bella usually “does-her-thing” fairly quickly...but it seems Romeo doesn't even feel the need “to go” for the longest time and is caught-up in whatever new scents he's picked up. Annoying!
My husband is concerned that I've now taught Romeo that he CAN call for us in the middle of the night and that we'll get him out. He's probably right, but Romeo has been EXTREMELY thirsty and I feel for him. After letting them out to get a drink and go potty, they WILL go back to their kennel with no problem, lay down and sleep for another two hours or so until morning. But I don't want things to be this way forever!! I'd like for Romeo to learn to be content (like Bella is) from the time we put them in bed, until morning. What do I (we) do??!!