Hello. Welcome to the forum - though I wish it were not in such circumstances. You are in good company here. Feel free to talk about what's happening with your best friend. Tony
I have read so many of your posts and find such resonance with them. I have been searching the Internet for days as our beloved westie is dying- I am sad beyond words
I am so very sorry for your loss and the absolutely dreadful way it all happened. I fully appreciate how you must be feeling. The loss of a dog can be far worse than losing a human, simply because they share so much of our daily routines, our lives and our love. And they give back so much loyalty, affection and love too. Clearly, you have nothing to reproach yourselves about, as you clearly did everything you possibly could have done - without knowing there was actually nothing that could be done to help. Most dogs only show pain when it becomes truly unbearable, because their instinct is not to display injury or pain (otherwise the pack would simply shun them or kill them). It is therefore perhaps understandable why you had no indication of what was happening with Maggie. If there is a glimmer of anything positive to say, at least she passed away at home where she would feel the most safe and comfortable, and it probably happened in her sleep, so she may not have been conscious of life slipping away.
Although heartbreaking, please try to remember what a fabulous life you gave her. If she could talk to you now, she would say 'thank you' for so much love, so many adventures and for being wonderful parents and loyal friends and companions. No dog could ask for more. You are both in my thoughts. And you still have your other two to keep you company, to love you and experience each day together ... and they will need you even more right now, so give them an extra hug from me. Maybe not tomorrow, but next week or the week after that, you will start to remember the happy times you have shared with Maggie. Stay strong ... and yes, cry when you need to. There's nothing more natural than grieving, even though it's a dreadful process. Please come back to the forum whenever needed to talk about how things are going, how you feel and of course, anything you want to tell us about Maggie. Much love, Tony x
I'm so sorry Jen...
There are no words that I can say to you, that express how deeply sorry I am for your loss.
My thoughts are with you, my friend.
Carl
We're still crying a week and a half later. Maggie left big paws to fill in this house. The only thing keeping us going is our other two dogs. We have to take one to the vet tomorrow to have his teeth cleaned and I'm dreading going there. Yes, it's a ridiculous thought, but I can't help but feel that something is going to go wrong. It's totally stupid on my part, but there it is. We have the most wonderful vet in the world too. He sent us a beautiful handwritten card after losing Maggie that sent both me and my husband in search of the last Kleenex box in the house. Maggie is back with us now, in a small box. It's just so wrong...
Maggie could not have had better person to take care of her. I know dogs go to heaven, because I still feel Jack is always around. Dogs fill our lives with joy and I know you will remember all the good times. It will take time to heal, but you come to the right place. So many understand what you have been through.
Take care,
Mark
I am so sorry for your loss. Please don't blame yourself. Maggie knows you loved her and did everything you could for her. My pits are crazy stoic with pain too. I will keep you in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry to hear about losing your best friend, you must be devastated. After reading your post, I gave my 13 yr old mutt a hug, like you suggested. Thanks for the reminder not to take them for granted, I know I do. Take Care.
Focus on the good times. It sounds like Maggie had a great life with your family. How old was she? Cancer is yet to be conquered and continues to kill both animals and humans. More sadly, it can also attack the young.
I've been told that dogs have a high resistance to pain, of course I don't know what that really means, but is sounds like Maggie handled it well.
Loving your family, including dogs, is the path to healing. Then you can remember but still go on enjoying the good things yet to experience.
Oh, Jaybay....I am so terribly sorry about Maggie. That is so sad! I can only offer that you have enlightend a lot of us out here about that horrible disease. I know I didn't know about it. Poor Maggie...may she R.I.P.