I have had epilepsy for 35 years. It is very dangerous to stop medication on your own. If you feel that you may have outgrown your seizures, your doctor will recommend an eeg to see if you still have any seizure activity in your brain. If you do not have seizure activity then he/she can slowly take you off your meds while monitering you. If you do have seizure activity, then your doctor can make a medical suggestion to you. Epilepsy is hard to live with, I know but your doctor is your best resource. When I decided to have a baby I seen at least 3 different specialist to get their opinions. At that time little was known about the meds I was on and pregnancy, but the medical knowledge on seizures has greatly advanced. We have been recognized finally. Good luck with everything and make good decisions when it comes to your epilepsy.
PS My 25 yr old daughter is beautiful and her only problem is being spoiled. I love her dearly (and my little grandson from her too)
Sorry if that message was very unclear I reread it and it was all over the place!! I am typing on my phone :-/ sorry