I am so very sorry for what has happened, it must be so incredibly hard! I couldn't even begin to imagine what you must be going through or feeling.
My thoughts and prayers are with you! Sending lots of love and positive energy your way!
I know in my heart that God will get us through this and he will heal our broken hearts. We don’t know why things happen but I know God don’t make any mistakes and everything happen for a reason. It’s not up to us to question or see other people and think their situation is blessed. Everybody is going through something we just don’t know. My cousin is envy over me because I have a DH and a daughter. She won’t so bad to be married about as bad as we want another baby. She has five kids and it’s like she want what I got and I want what she got. It does always seem that we want what other people have because they seem so bless and without a care in the world and in fact we don’t really know what they are going through and how they have gotten to the point where they are. I know God hear our cries and he know our heart but I think we need to focus on him because he said" Seek first the kingdom of God and I will give you the desires of your heart." We often try to handle thing on our own instead of putting God in it first and let him direct our path. I'm not going to tell you ladies that I don’t hurt because I do I'm not going to say I don’t question God because I do too we are human and we are going to but I know God will never leave nor forsaken us and he is with us when we need him the most. We just can’t give up. If we give up then we won’t get a baby. We must keep pushing fwd and try that’s the only way. We cannot let the devil get the VICTORY we must get the VICTORY with God’s help. I don’t know when it’s going to happen for any of us but I know our time is coming and God will get the praise and glory and we will rejoice.....
Thank you for kind words and prayers:)
My birthday is June 20th, so pretty close to your daughter's.
I know about the worrying.. I was so happy when I got pregnant...for a day or so...
Then my anxiety took over and I started thinking about my previous pregnancy that ended in miscarriage, I was obsessing about every symptom or not having one..
I don't know if every woman is like that when it comes to pregnancy, but for me it's a little crazy ride!
And I know that the worrying never ends - now I finally understand my mom and her over-protection...;)
So Tuesday is going to be a big day- with all our prayers and positive vibes sent your way!
Thanks, Sis:) Love ya!
I still don't know what to do. I was having hope that my pregnancy is going to be fine, until I looked at: www.misdiagnosedmiscarriage.com. It's very hopeful for some women, but not in my situation. They've seen the yolk sac from the very beginning, and there MUST be a heartbeat one week after being able to see the yolk.
Plus my yolk is too big right now which isn't normal.
I guess, I will go with d&c finally, because if I wait til I get infection, there is a possibility I may never have children on my own.
I don't know if you got my email or it went to spam folder again?;)
Welcome!!! Reading this forum makes me emotional n teary eyed or excited!! Hope it all works out for u n Ur family. Our feelings r all alike. U really need to b a strong person to go thru this. Each one of us on here n around the world that is going thru this or other struggles in life is a strong willed person. Not everyone would b able to handle it. I just feel sometimes how much can I actually take? Nothing comes easy. I already deal with special ed kids all day..money problems...my credit *****. .I lost my dad 7 yrs ago...gained weight..n now this?? It's over bearing. Some people have it so easy n feel so blessed. I should feel blessed with all I do have..married n young..healthy..family..a good job security...but I feel empty in a way now that I know I can't have what I want as easily as everyone else. What doesn't kill us just makes us stronger. N we need to know that tom is another day..a better day.
Thank you so much, ur always a great support and inspiration. Dont give up you will get that BFP soon. do you know what you want to do now? are you going to try one more in an IVF cycle?
I will be here for you too with which ever decision you make.
xxx