how many days after embryo transfer will i get pregnancy symptoms

[vergovana]

when am i going to feel iam pregnant?is there any sign i can have to know it succeded before time of testing?iam realy wondering so many questions after embryo transfer,2days ago was my embies transfer&feel nothing,iam wondering can i get BFN after IVF ,is it possible to have this or i must have positive&if they die i have miscarriage,any 1 can help me in this?

[dancingmama]

I am very sorry for this news. I don't know even what to say.
Did you have frozen embies?
You have to do what is best for you and your family...We all know the limits of what we can emotionally, physically and financially handle....

I can't believe this outcome...I am so sorry....
I guess with IVF, there is no guarantees....We want it to work so bad because of the torture we put our body through and the money and the hoping every single day...every pill and injection is hope...and then bam!  gone with a phone call....

My heart weeps for us who have experienced a loss recently because tears are all I can offer...I pray that we heal and can move forward on to whatever the plan B is feeling in our hearts we did the best we could with what we had at the time...no regrets! Never regrets!

My prayers also to those who are pregnant and/or who have kids and able to rejoice this Mothers' day...May you enjoy basking in the love of your family this weekend....

I hope future months are going to be bright!

[juana105]

Thanks, Lisa!
Isn't that ironic?
I just wrote a letter to my girlfriend from Canada AND MY EXACT WORDS WERE: I'm so ready to give love and participate in this miracle of creation.
Funny (or not funny) thing: I didn't want to have children in the past, I was always on some kind of pills (which are 99%effective) and I was still very anxious about the 1% possibility of getting pregnant....
Now it turns out that maybe I didn't have to use protection at all;)

I need time, I guess, to really know if I want to try one more time... I will continue with acupuncture and herbs; who knows, maybe I will witness a miracle someday?

Wish you all the best and stay with us, I think the support here is extremely important.
xoxoxo

[Lisa070576]

I m so sorry sweetie. I really hate this. It's so unfair. I really wanted it to work for u n others cuz it gives me n the rest inspiration that it does work. I know how u r feeling right now. It hurts so bad. Such a heart break. Don't let it take over u though. Life is so much more. I have my days but I tend to b a positive person on other days. It's disheartening cuz there is nothing we can really do n knowing u can't have it makes it all the worse..n makes us want it so bad. Don't give up. Ur heart will heal n u might feel like tryin again. So many didn't succeed on first try. Look into clinics with higher ratings n c what Ur clinic rates. I used to think if i was negative i wouldnt really return often to this site but I luv hearing from u guys daily n look forward to lots of posts. It hurts not being able to express how we feel but we all can relate. I hope Ur Dr is sure n not moving along so quickly. Did Ur hcg levels drop?? It's terrible that twice u had a false hope at being pregnant. Such a tease!!!
Take the time to heal n pray for a sign b4 beginning Ur next journey. It's such an emotional toll n not easy to get over. I still c my meds n syringes n rash n feel so hurt at it all. Money, time n my heart wasted for nothing. Y God..Y?? Everyone else yes but not me..others have 3 or 4 or 9 n me none?? N I have so much love to give!!!! So not fair. I always thought when I was younger watch that I can't have kids. It's like I jinxed myself all along. I have an aunt on my mom's side n dad's side that can't have kids n I always thought watch that b me. My mom had 4 of us..lost a newborn in Italy cuz they hurt his head..she had an abortion n miscarriage...very fertile n here I can't have one.  There has to b some hope n some wish in the near future I hope.
Hang on to Ur dream Bella... <333

[juana105]

Thank you as always for the inspiration!
I am spiritual, but my faith is a constant struggle. I guess I should go back to my meditation and prayer books, because I know that every time I get closer to God, life gets easier and more simple.

[BlesshighlyFavor1]

Nope this was my forth time. I was bless on the third try with my daughter which is three. We are trying to expand the family. This was your first try. I understand what you said about dealing with depression but My God can help with all the emotions we feel and everything that we go through. When I go through something that I cant handle I pick up the bible and start reading the word. I find me a hym and I keep that song in my sprit and it helps me.
This was only your first try don’t give up. Lay it all down to God and tell him how you feel and watch  the wonderful hands of God work.
Romans 8:28 (King James Version)

28. And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

[juana105]

Thank you, again.
I only tried ones, but considering my battle with depression I finally won at the end of last year, I have to be really careful with any time of emotional roller-coaster.
So we will have to think about what's best for the future baby and what's best for us.

I forgot, was it your first trial? Forgive me my poor memory, I have been really forgetful recently..