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Good news is that I got a referal to the gastroenterologist and he has schedualed me for an urgent sigmoidoscopy which I will have first thing in the morning.
I am a bit worried about the ripping/tearing pain that occured after using the laxitives while trying to have a bm. I did get some liquid out, though it was not much. After the pain I couldn't move or get off the toilet for 20+ mins and it still hurts in that area. Current primary care dr is unconcerned with this or the continued throbbing pain in that area.
As of Monday I have lost 13 lbs in just a little over a month, and it's not weight I can afford to loose. I've always been on the small side, with very little weight fluxuation over the last 15 yrs. In fact I have jeans I bought nearly 14 years ago that still fit until I lost this weight.
Thank you for your comments. I have been debating driving the hour and a half to go see my old dr or pay a visit to the ER over there (the next town over with a decent hospital). I managed to finally get in touch with my sister-in-law who is a nurse. She told me with my reaction to the laxatives that it would be a bad thing, especially in my current condition, to take them. Instead she recommended warm prune juice.
I did manage to go a little bit, but it caused so much pain right around my belly button and on my left side right at my waist line that I could hardly stand afterwards and it's continued to hurt and throb in those two areas. I can also feel a hard lump in the painful, throbbing area above my navel. The good news is that while I only passed a small amount it's given me a little bit of relief and the nausea is gone for the time being.
I don't feel this is just a basic constipation issue. I don't quite know what's going on, but I do know my body. I don't know if it could be adhesions or something else. I had noticed a few days before my appendectomy that my stools where thinner than normal, almost flattened and this is not something that has changed. When I have gone, it is still thin. Also it's not hard like you would expect from constipation.
How far away do you live from the next town over? If you're not too far, I would consider going that far away just to be seen in a different ER. There is something wrong with the doctors in your little town. After all, very likely if your friend were lucky enough to be able to get a PCP (primary), he would very likely have the colonoscopy right at the local hospital, since it sounds like you live in a small town. Small town doctors wouldn't have the testing equipment anyway. No one should be bleeding from the rectum just from passing gas. Where I live, at least the ER has the courtesy of referring people where they can go for a primary care doctor. There are even low income clinics who will take people who don't have any insurance and use a sliding fee based on income. One of which I think is better than any of the state health clinics, because it at least isn't affiliated with such uncaring clinics. And, because they are so good about being oriented toward integrative medicine with all the interns from the natural health college working side by side with them or using the office after hours when the main clinic is closed. They don't listen to everything the natural doctors say, but they listen to enough that they're actually being helpful by using what they have learned from natural medicine.
You could try this: You could try just ONE round of the Fleet enemas. They come with two bottles usually. If the first bottle is insufficient, it is still okay to use the second bottle. After this, no matter what, don't use any more. That would be where the problem would lie. I was impacted after being in the hospital from a kidney issue. I had problems with constipation before entering the hospital and still do, even though it is less than it was during the hospital stay. They don't believe anyone who needs gluten free if their fancy blood tests are negative for Sprue and don't listen. Even though there are other parts of the body that react to gluten, like the skin itself with eczema. My colon also reacts to gluten or the constipation wouldn't have gotten worse during the hospital stay. They didn't listen to me about this either, because they dismiss it as nothing but IBS, as if IBS is nothing. I drink plenty of water, but they blamed me for the dehydration, like I did this to myself. I know someone else who had the same unexplained kidney issue who was also blamed. She, too, carries a water bottle around with her everywhere and didn't do it to herself either. Still, that said, this local hospital sounds a lot better than the one you're dealing with. That would totally rot to be dismissed like you have been when you are showing signs of autoimmune illness with the high SED rates.
You are correct that usually you should not use these enemas. It is definitely a bad idea to use more than what I mentioned. I don't know why your doctor is being such a jerk about not referring you until you use the enema when I know in my gut from what you're telling me that you are still going to need the referral to see a gastroenterologist. I'm just a lay person such as yourself, and even I know there is something more going on here than ordinary constipation or fecal impaction.
Thank you for taking the time to replay Kaneda. Yes, I am in constant pain to the point I'm having trouble sleeping. My husband says that when I do sleep I whimper every time I move. Pain also gets so bad when I try to eat that I end up in tears.
My Dr has been insistent upon the fact that it is only constipation and feels there is no need to see a gastroenterologist. My last visit was on Monday. At that time, they did blood work. Results show increased SED rate that indicates inflammation and a high white blood cell count. With the results she is willing to refer me, but only if I follow the ordered treatment.
Everything I know about stimulant laxatives says you should not take them if you have the possibility of obstruction, fecal impaction, or abdominal pain of unknown origin. I also know that you should not do a fleet enema if you are dehydrated and I am showing signs of this even with increased fluid intake. This, combined with my reaction to stimulant laxatives, makes me worry about following her ordered treatment. Without following the treatment, she will not make the referral. My last Dr (before I moved) had told me if I started to have any of the indicators of colon cancer that I should have a colonoscopy ASAP due to family history (my grandfather passed due to colon cancer at 42). At the beginning of all of this I had noted that stools had become narrow, almost ribbon like. I was unsure if this was due to the appendectomy or not.
I would love to get a second opinion but I'm not sure where or how to go about getting that done, more than ready to change Dr's to someone that will actually listen to the symptoms instead of deciding what the symptoms are based on what she thinks is the most likely cause. My husband, who attended my last appointment with me, also noted this and feels she may be lacking in intelligence.
As far as the local ER, it's a joke. I would be lucky if they even took the time to examine me, let alone re-evaluate. Recently a friend took someone in that passed a large blood clot while passing gas. They did not evaluate him or do any tests; instead, they told him that he should make an appt with his PC Dr. When he stated that, he did not have one they told him that he needed to work on that and sent him home. This is just one example of the lack of care in the local ER, both my husband and I have also had bad experiences there.
Should I go ahead do the treatment so I can get the referral? My instincts warn me against it, but it could be fear of the laxatives.
I find it strange that there is an unresolved mass, you are in pain, and they haven't looked at a colonoscopy to see what's going on...?
It could be anything from a growth to impacted fecal matter - perhaps you should seek another opinion or walk in to an emerg to get re-evaluated?
I'm not sure how HMOs work with referrals in the US, but I;m sure they try to keep specialist referrals to a minimum to keep costs down. I still can't imagine a good ER or clinic wouldn't do more to get to the root cause - especially with your imaging results. Did they give you a copy of your CT scan on disc that you can take to another doctor?