So, lately, I've been very unable to cope with my parents. They seem to try to tell me that the way i live is wrong, and that anything I do or say is wrong and rude... and then I scream and curse them away! I litteraly wwish they would be away from me, or me away from them! I have always kept a foot at the door with them, they know that I'm quick at making decisions, but when I make decisions I'm kinda aware of what's coming up? or what I might at the result,.. so that's why I initially do things, only if it benefits me.... but then they say that I'm rude and almost stupid, because I get angry when they disagree with me, and that's all the time! So I'm kinda fed up with their negativity and I push them away, and more I push them away, more annoying they get. Like I'm 21 for crying out loud, I am a male, I should and deserv the right to be on my own 2 feet, and they should make me feel like I could be able to do it. They shouldn't try to make me feel like a baby, or a 15-16 year old again? Primarily the problem I have towards them, is the mistrust (and I really have nothing to hide from them), they don't trust me, (I consider myself as a free spirit, so i love travelling, meeting new people, being and wanting to be happy, and people make me happy, it makes me look back at myself and try to change some traits I find ugly and try to enter theses people's emotion into my character and become someone more willing. So I do enjoy having conversations and understanding where people come from), but everytime I walk inside the house, my parents are nagging, saying i dont do much, that I'm a f-ing loser, or a no one. And then they try and give me affectiong by buying me stuff. they bought me a car, and yet I've never been in an accident, Inever blew up the engine or anything... but as soon as I speak my point out to them, they see it as a threat, and then we argue. They take the car away from me, they tell me not to eat their food, and all sort of stuff, and then I reply back, or lately I've been saying, "Im not gonna argue with you, I know you want me to scream, but you just won't get it out of me!" and ive been saying this one alot now too, "This is really none of your business, let me do it, and don't get into my life anymore". But this behaviour is really setting ourselves apart in the house and everything, I am moving out in 3 weeks, but I don't want to leave hating them, the way I do now? It's frustrating in my side, but I mean, I feel like I have to do that, for them to let me go. It might be hard for them to do it, but it's really making us hate eachother. And I really don't know what else I can do, I've tried all ways I believe, nice, mean, yelling, calm, etc... and we still hit heads. I don't get along with my dad alot, and now my mother is starting to get on my nerves. They don't understand, and Ive tried to let them understand that... I just came back from Brazil, I've been searching for a job in the past month, I am applying at many places, I have been way more healthy and quit smoking cigarettes, and I have been helping out in the house, making dinner, cleaning the house, not spending alot of money, nor going out every weekend, but It just seems like it isnt good enough for them, and its too hard to reach their standards... I mean, I am so fed up! I can't stand them anymore, and I need help on this one, I am becoming meaner and meaner for not having any support for them on this difficult time, so then I use my lines, "let me handle, don't bother me" because they dont have anything good to say, they state psychological theories that I can get a job... about my character, because of something I did, or because I should of taken something out from the resume.... but I mean.. i don't feel this way, its almost about luck, for someone to open your resume, and want to interview you or hire you? They always blame me for the past, because i was a very disobedient teenager, and rebel ish... So i don't know how to carry forward anymore... its not like theres a reset button to make them re-new. or clear their head. There's just no way to make them understand things, it's their way or their way. Thats it. Their not very old.... thats the thing i dont understand, they shouldnt be so pessimistic about life and make me have a pessimistic way of seeing life, I tell them that. I make them want to go adventure. But their stuck to their routine of working and not having fun. And thats starting to bother me alot! Since they dont allow me to live my life, and tell me that living my life is bad.,.. WTF? Mom is 47 and my dad is 56.. theyre not old, theyr not fat, and theyr not having bad health... So whats their problem?!