I'm a teenage male. I had unprotected sex with another male last June (me on the receiving end) it was only for like 2 minutes (he did not have an orgasm...it was actually really dry) but I did give him oral sex and he came in my mouth...I spit out. About 5-6 weeks later I had a STD/HIV test. Everything came back NEGATIVE. In november, I gave another male oral sex (I didn't let him ejaculate into my mouth...but I'm sure pre-*** was). Those two instances were the only thing SEXUAL I've done up until this point of me writing this. A month after that instance in november I started having a cold. Just coughing and producing mucus. No fevers. I only wear a light jacket and even though its freezing outside. My dad seems to think that's where it came from. Common cold right? I've walked in the cold a few times for like 30 minutes at a time, so yeah it could have been a common cold. The cold lasted for more than two weeks. I'm over it now, but it did last for about 3-4 weeks. Just coughing and stuffy nose. I've been STRESSING out because I'm thinking that this is HIV. Like, I saw two nurses in like two weeks and they both recorded me down as having a really high blood pressure. That's because of me thinking about it. I noticed a lump on the left of my groin once. I messed with it so much one day, it kind of got a little bigger the next but now it's gone. Now, I'm just getting over a sore throat...it comes and goes. The doctor said it's nasal drip...which I can feel and tell it's mucus. I started taking something for it, but I guess it hasn't worked yet. I'm experiencing neck pains...mainly because I keep toughing it. I have noticed swelling on one side of the front of my neck and on the same side on the back. WHAT COULD THIS BE? I've googled a lot of stuff lately and everything that comes up scares the hell out of me. Could that swelling be lymph nodes too? Could this be HIV related at all???? I know about the 3 month testing thing and that 6 weeks test may not have been accurate. The only thing I've done after that point was give oral. I had tests done last week. Everything has come back except HIV. I was NEGATIVE for all the other STDs. I don't know about Syphilis because it wasn't listed on the report.