my 18 yr old son and 13 yr old daughter have started failing in school. my son has always struggled, but he is a senior and may not graduate. he has a "whatever" attitude about everything, is cussing alot and gets angry about the smallest thing. my daughter is being late to school, even though she rides the bus or gets a ride from her grandmother. she is now getting d's and f's from b's and c's. she would do better at home one day then the next something else happens. has no respect for authority (teachers, principle, me, grandmother). don't know if they need counseling, meds, prayer or ALL three? I believe in prayer, but sometimes I just want to say "whatever" too!. They don't seem to care so why should I? I know I should and I do, I'm just frustrated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My 15 yr old seems to be the mediator and he gets upset when the family is in an uproar. very unhealthy family right now.