I do not know who the father is...help

This is painful for me to post, here goes. Hubby and i were seperated, 2 months. in that time was very lonely, met soemone, was intimate with him, during the same time was intimate with hubby, made up with hubby. We are back together. I am pregnant...I do not kno who is the father...I am sick over this, hubby and I were trying to have a baby, and now instead of being elated I am thinking about abortion...what if the baby is not my hubby's?? Should i have the baby anyway? Can someone tell if it is not his...blood tests? At birth?  Doctors out there please help.....what are the chances of blood testing etc,, reavealing this one day? I am trying to save my marriage, but I fear it may be over..as I want to do the right thing. Please advise.

[sandmanx]

im no docter but i read you can have a dna test while your pregnant get some more info (google dna) if its not your hubbys u should do the right thing.

[TALockhart]

Don't have an abortion.  There is a reason for this child's life.  Trust that and Hope for that for the child.  Yes, there are many ways to find out who the childs father is.  I would find out if I were you.  Sounds like You need the peace of mind.  Be honest with your husband about the situation.  It sounds like the other person is no longer involved in your life, so be truthful, and both you and your husband will find peace in that. Remember, there are many support groups out there, and keep in mind that you are not the first person to have had this type of situation happen to them.  You can work through this.  That child was created for a purpose.