Help please!!

[Help0099]

Please help!! I hold oral sex with a transexual I used a condom during the oral sex then switched to anal I used lub but didn't change condoms. Anal went on for about  2min or so then i stopped I realized it wasn't my cup thing. The condom look like it didn't break I saw blood on the condom so rushed and took the condom off. I washed up with anti bactiura soap and water and dryed off. 2 days later I felt itching and burning sensation around genitals and it burned when I peed. I went and saw my urologist and did blood work everything can back negative except for HSV 1 he told me ot was tok soon to show HSV 2 or HIV i know i had HSV1 already .He said it could been a reaction do to strees and guilt  of the encounter I'm on valtrex now it's been 2 1/2 weeks and in still feeling flu like symptoms. I feel weak and headache a feeling of ill no fever no chills. My question is

1. During oral sex could  there have been holes in the condom before going to anal sex?

2. When cleaning myself  with soap and water could it have went inside my urethra?

I'm not sure of its my outbreak that causing my symptoms or if its something else. I don't have any bumps or liaisons or anything my lower back hurts every now and then and I think my lymph node in my neck might be swollen. I went and did an oral hiv test on day 18 that came back negative but I know that's too soon. Can any help please I'm really stressed out

[Vance2335]

No one told you that, you misunderstood what I wrote. And don't post about HIV in the STD forum.

Time to move on.

[Help0099]

Someone on her told me it can get inside your urethra when washing after sex. I used hand wash soap and water and used my hand then dried off. Do you think it could've went inside my urethra ?

[Teak]

You can forget about HIV, you didn't have an exposure.

[Help0099]

Thanks for the reply.. Just nervous man I feel like **** right now my doctor from kaiser emailed me back and told me the fatigue flu like symptoms may last up to 5 weeks for HSV outbreaks. I'm Prying to God it's the outbreak that I'm feeling and not hiv symptoms.

[Teak]

Had the condom failed you would have known without a doubt. Condoms don't get some holes in themj.

[Help0099]

I had anal sex after oral. I don't know if there were any holes in the condom before starting anal sex.. What do you think?

[Teak]

HIV is not transmitted by oral sex with or without a condom.