I think I might have hiv help please

Hello My Name Is Tyler Im 15 yrs old i have a girlfriend 14yrs old we had sex a couple weeks back i developed a rash with a fever muscle aches blood shot red eyes stomache pains feeling very tired yawning alot. I asked my girlfriend a bunch of questions because i was worried and scared so it turns out her uncle that lives with her has HIV i was shocked she never told me they are not sexually with each other at all.. so i went to the doctor i had sex with her i had the rash then i tested for hiv and mono just incase mono came out negitve and so did hiv im still worried because today we had sex protected and now im developing a rash with red bumps on my body as soon as she leaves i swear i develop symptoms about 2 hours after we have sex i get the full blownen rash and a fever that quickly i have had sores on the back of my foot or ancle i have a little red dot like a pinpoint on my arm the sore that i had on the back of the foot became very flaky.. im very scared for my life it stresses me out so badly im so worried im reliaved that the test came out negtive but now im experencing this again please someone help me please i dont know what to do i love her so much but i keep getting sick it sucks im so young i i got blood work done also and very thing was fine regular blood test it was fine.. also im expercing like very oily getting more ache like my body is changing i dont know what to do! and the test for the hiv was 3 mouths we had sex so if it was hiv it would have come out i just dont know anymore but as soon as we have sex 2 hours thats all i start devloping a rash and a fever i just checked it was 99 its crazy please help me reply anyone im scared but if it is hiv ill deal with it.. i dont deserve this though.. Thanks Please Reply Tyler

[Melissa_1982]

A rash is not a symptom of HIV. Believe it or not but you may be allergic to the soap, shampoo, detergent, perfume, pretty much anything she uses or you could even be allergic to her vaginal secretions. See a DR & let him know it happens everytime u have sex with her.

[Tyler5555]

Forgot To Add I have Very Bad Night sweats

[mrswifeyy198]

hey maybe u should get tested again,, but it could be cus ur worried alot too about getting that hun,, mayb should wait have sex.. u could just be worried or getting cold some honeyy it takes lil before can get it.. right after sex u cant get it that fasted honeyy

[Melissa_1982]

A rash is not a symptom of HIV. Believe it or not but you may be allergic to the soap, shampoo, detergent, perfume, pretty much anything she uses or you could even be allergic to her vaginal secretions. See a DR & let him know it happens everytime u have sex with her.

[Tyler5555]

omg thank you so much melissa that is alot of possiablityes thank you

[Tyler5555]

But wait i heard lots of times rash is a symptom of hiv???

[Teak]

The only way to know your status is by testing. You were given incorrect information above, rashes can be a symptom of ARS, but they would not be the only symptom.

[Tyler5555]

Thanks What Does ARS Mean? I tested And It was 3 mouths after i had sex with her and it was negative but what about if she didnt have it the first time we did it in that 3 mouths do you think it would be enough to make the test postive its very werid i suffer from most of the hiv symptoms but i just dont know anymore since yesterday i have new red bumps on my arm and a little rash  i had a 99,1 fever yesterday and it went away.. please reply cause i think your very smart and i read ur profile thanks Tyler.

[Melissa_1982]

sorry when re-searching it does saw a rash can be a symptom BUT the rash you are describing doesn't sound to me to match up with what the symptoms described. BUT if you are stressing about it then your body can mimic the symptoms of HIV.  just like a woman who is stressing about being pregnant her body can mimic the symptoms.  your dr would have advised you to come back at 6 months after the 1st time to be re-tested if you were worried. BUT it does sound like you can be having an allergic reaction to something she has had contact with. it would NOT just flare up when you are having sex with her & be fine before then.

here is a link to hiv rash photos.  honestly go back & see ur dr. if u r still coming back negative make sure she gets tested as well & NO sexual contact with anyone either of u til the results come back.

http://www.picturesdepot.com/tags/1/hiv+rash.html

[Tyler5555]

its werid because like an 2 hours after we have sex and we had protected sex this rash comes up so fast and the fever wouldnt?? hiv take time for that to happen or is it like when ever you encounter you get with it affects your quickly? I just dont get it i get the rash so fast its gone now i had it yesterday but i deveolped new bumps so idk and i tested negitive the 3 mouths we had sex ago so.. who knows im thinking maybe i didnt have enough of the virus in me to test postive thats the only thing i could think of and i dont have allergy's and im not really allergic to anything so.. yeah and the times i was around her before and we didnt have sex i didnt get no rash or anything i really dont know to do or what to think

[Tyler5555]

Omfg... Thoses Rash pictures Look Just like my girlfriends bites or scars omg omg she says they where just scars from bug  bites omfg... omg..

[Tyler5555]

Im scared... Omg..

[worried4144]

ARS symptoms occur in couple weeks usually 10-14 days after the exposure. The most common ARS symptoms are fever (101+), sore throat, and body rash. About 70% of the people with HIV get all these 3 symptoms around the same time. As you described your symptoms and the window period for your symptoms to show up is not related to HIV. You cannot have ARS 2 hours after sexual contact. No way, No how. Your HIV test around 2 weeks is meaningless, if you are really worried you should get tested at 3 month mark with a stand alone HIV Antibody test, and your results will be conclusive at that time. And i did not understand the part of how protected you are during your sexual experience with your GF. You sad you had protected sex?

[Tyler5555]

I know i had the rash before and we had sex unprotected again i surrfered from all that the first time we had unprotected including joint pain and muscle aces i had unprotected 4-3 mouths ago and i had protected i had sex yesterday and devopled new bumps a small fever 99.1 and a little rash on my hand which is gone but i still suffer from the bumps there still there

[Tyler5555]

It tested negative when we had sex 4 mouths ago and im just wondering why im getting this again if i was protected it doesnt add up we have sex 2 hours go by and i got a fever rash and bumps that quickly can that honestly happen that quickly like seriously 2 hours after sexual contact?

[worried4144]

ARS symptoms do not go away overnight. It usually take 1-2 weeks for them to disappear. Your fever 99.1 is not worrisome of HIV. My personal opinion is that you are extremely anxious and your body cannot take this anymore thats why you are having anxiety symptoms. Stress can cause a lot of problems in body. Nooo, my opinion will not change. Your symptoms at this moment are not worrisome of HIV. If you want, you can take antibody test + p24 antigen test at 4 weeks mark, and the results are conclusive, considering that you dont want to wait until 3 month mark. Good Luck.

[Tyler5555]

Thanks So Much but it doesnt add up i never get a rash sir never and it has to do with sex!! Cause everytime it happend during sex and we are both virgins when we did it!!! So what do i do..

[worried4144]

Tyler,

The rash problem you have obviously is not related to HIV because you dont get it right away, there is no way to develop HIV rash right after the sex. On the other hand, there might be hundreds other reasons why you get this rash excluding HIV. If it really bothers you, see a dermatologist and get diagnosed.

[Tyler5555]

Thanks alot how do you know so much about hiv? do you have it :D

[worried4144]

No, i dont have it. I was in your shoes once, and i was extremely stressed like you are now. So, i digged into it, and learned a lot about it. I am glad i could help.

[Tyler5555]

Thanks Wana Be friends or something i could give you my number and stuff and tell you who things goes cause you where a great help to me dude thanks alot

[Tyler5555]

How things go*

[Tyler5555]

ohh yeah what kinda things can u get from alot of stress?

[worried4144]

Let us know how your test results turn out. I already know the results, but get it done for a piece of mind. You can definitely get loss of appetite, headaches, and rashes from stress. These are very very common. No need for a phone number, you can find me here in this forum. Good Luck.

[Tyler5555]

Ok Man Thanks alot i appercaite it i really do i hope its nothing bad im sorry for my bad spelling lol im careless sometimes

[Teak]

Symptoms or lack of symptoms will never tell you your status the only way to know your status is by testing. You can test 3 months post exposure to obtain your conclusive test results.

[Tyler5555]

I did test 3 mouths after and it came out negative.. Maybe i didnt have enough of the virus?

[Teak]

You don't have an HIV concern.  You are conclusively negative.

[Tyler5555]

Thanks

[Emily_MHModerator]

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