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Unprotected oral before protected anal

Recently received unprotected oral sex than went on to protected anal (insertive). The condom did not fail. What are my HIV risks? Thank you
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186166 tn?1385259382
go back and re-read the replies you've been given.  please dont ask me to keep repeating myself.
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Hi LIZZIE LOU,

I found the girl I had sex and She said she is testing every 4 month. And she is very safe too. I experienced that and she never let me to kiss her lips or her vagina. Also said she test last month and it was negative.

Hong Kong people says prostitution is legal and some says it is not.

Any way what is the Bottom line? with all your experience, do you think I don't need any test ?
Please answer me for the Final time.


King regards,

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HI there,


Thank you for your kind reply.
I know this is not a confession forum, I never wanted to have sex with a SCW but I was so curious about it. Living in Hong Kong and around 100 000 CSW and I though t at least once. Now I know it is really a hard feeling to deal with once your are done.

You should have seen thousand of stories like this and again thank you very much for the explanation. You guys are doing a great job in this forum and wish you all very best.


Kind regards.
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186166 tn?1385259382
transmission takes place inside the body during penetration.  once hiv is exposed to air, it is rendered inactive and unable to infect.

no one has EVER been infected from the exposure you are describing.  you will NOT make "history" by becoming the first to do so.

kindly move on...this forum has done it's job.  your anxiety wont have any affect on our answers nor change our assessment.
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Hi Teak,

I know you are saying I'm not at risk. But god sake please let me know why is that?
How even if vaginal fluids move in to penis with water, I won't be infected. Yes, you said it won't reproduced out side the host. But if it move to urethra isn't it find a new host?
What is the meaning of the host?

Please let me know Teak every thing will be alright then.
I'm a Engineer may be I'm thinking too much. Please let me know... Then I will be long gone....

Thank you
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Hi Teak,

I know you are saying I'm not at risk. But god sake please let me know why is that?
How even if vaginal fluids move in to penis with water, I won't be infected. Yes, you said it won't reproduced out side the host. But if it move to urethra isn't it find a new host?
What is the meaning of the host?

Please let me know Teak every thing will be alright then.
I'm a Engineer may be I'm thinking too much. Please let me know... Then I will be long gone....
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Reread the replies that you have already been given.
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Hi Teak,

Please don't go man with me, I post something on the HIV anxiety forum but didn't get a answer. I know as you said it is very hard to happen but my gut feeling does not help it. Please for the final time let me know the answer for the following issue.

I washed my Penis just after removing the condom, may be after one minute. i saw some vaginal fluids in the base of the Penis. it was a very brief washing as I was confused due to my first encounter. when washing it should move towards Penis and may be under the fore skin. Then it can move with some post cum and preserved in side or may be go in to urethra.
1. What is the reason it is not infectious, you said it can not multiply out side the host, but the virus is there.  and why it is not infectious?
2, I read some publications which says uncircumcised men can have higher risk of HIV if they wash it just after sex. Is that even apply for protected sex?

I'm so confused also I have a huge guilty because I just engaged to a nice girl and I left for another country for my job. This December we are planing to have our wedding. It is very hard for me to concentrate on my works too.

Please help me answer me if you can. if I know the reasons that will be a great relief for me.

You are doing a great help for people like me. Thank you very much for it.
  
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Your questions weren't answered because you never had an exposure. You had no risk of contracting HIV and you were advised of that. Take any further questions to the HIV Anxiety Support Group. You can find the link on the right hand side of the page under Popular Groups.  
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Please Teak answer my above questions, This problems are killing me, This will be my last Post
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Please can you follow up my previous posts

What is the meaning of the living Host? I thought when you consider the Vaginal fluids, it is the living host of the HIV virus. So that true or should it be the Inside the Vagina?
2. What is the meaning of not infectious even the Virus is there?
3. Have you ever heard some one got the disease in this way?
4. I read even HIV+ and HIV- unprotected sex happen, it is 1 in 1000 may have the chance why is that ? If Mucous membrane can absorb them why they don't get infected?
5. Diarrhea related to HIV, Is it come with the Initial symptoms and abdominal pain?
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Hi Teak it is again me, Some biological questions.
1. What is the meaning of the living Host? I thought when you consider the Vaginal fluids, it is the living host of the HIV virus. So that true or should it be the Inside the Vagina?
2. What is the meaning of not infectious even the Virus is there?
3. Have you ever heard some one got the disease in this way?
4. I read even HIV+ and HIV- unprotected sex happen, it is 1 in 1000 may have the chance why is that ? If Mucous membrane can absorb them why they don't get infected?

Good to here that I'm not in a risk any way I will go through a test at the 3 month mark.
Thank you Teak
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Yes
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Is this means, I'm not at risk ......?
Do I need to go through a Test for HIV?
May be you feel these questions are too stupid but please I'm in huge stress...
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions, therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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I'm almost suicided and in a huge mental stress. I had protected sex with CSW few weeks ago. No condom fails. Just after (less than a minute) we finished I went bath room and wash the Penis. Now I'm worrying because this is my first encounter and I'm married too.

I know at the base of the Penis, some vaginal fluids can be collected and due to washing it can go in to urethra. I'm a uncircumcised man and as I found form the internet it increases the possibility of transmitting HIV due to Washing.

1. Can water kill HIV before it get in to the risky areas ?
2. Am I at a risk of getting HIV?
3. I fingered her little bit but the fluids was not sticky as vaginal fluid. may be water as we had a shower before the sex and also there was no foreplay. I use the same hand to pull out my fore skin after washing and may be I touched the penis head but sure not the urethra. Is this increases my risk?  

I'm reading your forum since I had this exposure and it is quite helpful to people like us. Please help me too.
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