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dear docs
hi , around 2 and 1/2 mths ago i went to a parlor for massage and had sex with the girl from china .
during sex , the condom broke for a few seconds before i realised it .
im horridly terrified and have nightmare everynite .....
i dont know what happened . and i also want to ask to be 100% sure i dont have HIV or anything ?
in about 2 weeks time , it will be 91 days .... which is also 13 weeks ( around there ) i want to test ....
will this test be 100% conclusive or do I have to test again some time ?
and pls advise how high my risk was .... I AM SO TERRIFIED NOW ....
everywhere i walk or see in the newspaper / magaizine / TV seems like I keep hearing about HIV and AIDS .
its so scary . pls someone advise me my risk
My apologies then. Sorry, trying to do too mayn things acroos too many PC's. but again my apologies for misdirecting my answer @ you.
What part of my reply did you not understand? I simply re-iteratied teh fact that for a conclusive HIV test result you need to test three months after your last possible exposure.
The fact that ineedadvise is ten weeks into his window period is irrelveant.He has been told when to test by other posters. But he hasn't listened to anyone and has started new threads about what contitutes three months.
The fact that ineedadvise is ten weeks into his window period is irrelveant.He has been told when to test by other posters. But he hasn't listened to anyone and has started new threads about what contitutes three months.
After 2 weeks ineedadvise will have the conclusive 3 months test. What are you talking about?
You have been told when to test for a conlcusive result. Nothing that anyone on this forum will tell will change; Testing @ Three months is conclusive.
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yes I will surely test in 2 weeks to make sure I am 101% HIV negative , thank you all for the moral support
Don't get me wrong, I don't advertise prostitutes in my country. Dealing with them is still risky behavior no matter in which country. I was just talking about your risk level. For example, in my understanding a random girl, picked at some club, who agrees for unprotected sex after 2 hours of knowing you is riskier than a prostitute. :)
But of course, you should test in 2 weeks.
But of course, you should test in 2 weeks.
the girl said shes fine , as every customer she has sex with HAS to wear a condom ...
I dont trust her still though , I want to test to make sure 101% Im negative ....
I dont trust her still though , I want to test to make sure 101% Im negative ....
thank u for your reply .... i feel much calmer , but thinking I have to wait another 2 weeks to test , I just dunno what to do .... just have to wait it out ....
Im really stupid for doing what I did , thank you all for your advise .
Im really stupid for doing what I did , thank you all for your advise .
Most of prostitutes don't have hiv (at least in my country), they are pretty well educated. That makes your chances even higher.
Of course, visiting such places you should be aware of possible risks.
If it would be 6-8 weeks now, I would recommend you to test to have a good indication of your status that is not likely to change. But since there are only 2 weeks left for a conclusive test, it doesn't make sense to waste money. Just wait a couple of weeks and get tested, probably also for other STDs.
Of course, visiting such places you should be aware of possible risks.
If it would be 6-8 weeks now, I would recommend you to test to have a good indication of your status that is not likely to change. But since there are only 2 weeks left for a conclusive test, it doesn't make sense to waste money. Just wait a couple of weeks and get tested, probably also for other STDs.
you're letting your anxiety run wild...CALM DOWN ! ! ! what's done is done.
the odds are greatly in your favor. the only way to know your status is by testing so you're just going to have to wait it out.
in the future...make sure you use plenty of water based lube to help prevent condom failure.
the odds are greatly in your favor. the only way to know your status is by testing so you're just going to have to wait it out.
in the future...make sure you use plenty of water based lube to help prevent condom failure.
thank u for reply ...
but I am still really scared ....
as I wont know what to do if I really had it .
mostly likely I will just go jump off a cliff or some building ...
Im so scared and I can only blame myself for being stupid
but I am still really scared ....
as I wont know what to do if I really had it .
mostly likely I will just go jump off a cliff or some building ...
Im so scared and I can only blame myself for being stupid
so confirm 100% , by 3 mths or 90 days or 12 weeks it is 101% conclusive ? I REALLY NEED TO MAKE THIS POINT CLEAR ...
anyone else can pls advise me on this ?
anyone else can pls advise me on this ?
You have never read a truthful statement by someone saying they tested positive after 6 months on this forum or on this website.
Dr's do not post in this forum, they have a experts forum where you have to pay to ask a question.
Dr's do not post in this forum, they have a experts forum where you have to pay to ask a question.
ok but just one last question i have read on the forum here , that some people test positive after 6 mths ??
is that true ? sorry for all the questions as I dont know who else to ask ...
btw are u a doctor ?
is that true ? sorry for all the questions as I dont know who else to ask ...
btw are u a doctor ?
Few days forth or back don't matter.
And don't panic. The odds are still in in your favor. HIV is not always transmitted via single vaginal encounter, even with positive partner, especially from woman to man. I know true story of a married couple (wife positive, husband negative) and they have unprotected sex for years (their decision for some reason), and the husband still stays negative.
Test at right time.
And don't panic. The odds are still in in your favor. HIV is not always transmitted via single vaginal encounter, even with positive partner, especially from woman to man. I know true story of a married couple (wife positive, husband negative) and they have unprotected sex for years (their decision for some reason), and the husband still stays negative.
Test at right time.
A risk is a risk, i cant say if it was high risk or low risk. I don't know the pervalance of HIV in China or in sex workers in China.
testing at the 3 month mark is 100% conclusive and no further testing is needed.
testing at the 3 month mark is 100% conclusive and no further testing is needed.
I ALSO want to ask should I wait another 3 weeks to make it 14 weeks to be safer ?
thanks.
thanks.
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