worried

[may0308]

Hello.. well I am very concerned I don't know If I should be or not. . I have been friends with this man for about 11 years and he is my best friend well we became intimate a year and a half ago. . I have been getting tested through out the year and always have had a negative result. . Anyway recently I have been having somewhat of a white spot on the side of my tongue. . Everything I read online is saying hiv.. oral hairy leukoplakia is what online sites say it is.. I'm concerned that this is my first symptom although I have been getting tested through the whole year we've been dealing.. I have recently been on antibiotics for a root canal that I'm still taking care of. .I was on 3 antibiotics about 2 wks apart.   No more medicine but I don't know what to think now. .. should I be concerned about hiv with this situation with many tongue If I've gotten tested through the year the last time being in January of this year. ..would somethin like that come on so fast. ... please help

[may0308]

I really don't know what to do.. I'm scared to get tested now and I'm still with My partner he keeps telling me that I have nothing to worry about. .. I'm so scared right now. .. my whole body is shaking. ..

[Teak]

I hope you would be concerned,  compared to all the other non-risk issues you've asked questions about.

[may0308]

Ur right .. should I be strongly concerned

[Teak]

After all your anxiety filled posts on contracting HIV you then go and have unprotected sex? You've been coming here long enough as to when to test to obtain your conclusive test result.

[may0308]

Yes..I had a similar problem before at the time I got tested and it was negative. .my partner tells me everything is ok and that there's nothing to worry about

[Teak]

Did you have unprotected penetrative anal or vaginal sex?