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Penetration, symptoms and HIV... Do I have it??

Hi, ten days ago I had an incident which was considered frotting by some of the posters in this forum.
However, if the tip of the penis went inside the rectum for a split of a second when the guy tried pushing in (not the whole head, just the tip of it), is that still considered frotting or penetration???

Also, I'm afraid I did get HIV since I lost all sexual desire after the incident and i think my body's trying to tell me something. Can lost of libido be considered an early symptom of HIV infection???

Last but not least, I also gave him a brief unprotected oral before all that.

What are your thoughts on this?? (assuming he had a high viral load of hiv, since I read that some people that have recently been infected or that have lived with hiv untreated for a long period of time are more likely to e infectious)
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can you give me more info? Dr. hook from this forum says there might be a risk http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Brief-Frottage-Then-Protected-Anal/show/1774804

i've changed after this experience. i really don't want to have hiv. i don't want to put myself at risk ever again.
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Sorry, you had no risk.
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Then he had no risk.
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in other words, even >without< penetration i'm scared he might have gone far enough in for any risk to happen.

please help.
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Sorry, i thought i commented before, he did not go in. There was no penetration. My doubt is, he pushed his penis with the intention to go in, we were really wet, i'm scared he might have left some precum in the entrance of my rectum where the sphincter is located.
Please don't answer if i know if he penetrated me or not, he did not.
I just want to know the facts on all of this.
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Only you can answer if he entered you or not.
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I don't know how to be more descriptive, I was wet, he was covered in precum, he pushed his penis against my anus with the intention of going in, as soon as I felt this I moved away, BUT i did feel my sphincter expand with the pressure, thus the wet tip might have come in contact with my rectum.
Imagine this, pretend his penis was 7 inches long, when he pushed in maybe less than a centimeter might have gone in far enough for the tip (maybe 6 milimeters or less) to cume in contact with my rectum.

I don't know past what point is considered penetration. To me it is the part where I feel my sphincter actually making an effort for the penis to go in, but in this case the fact that I was wet and that we was covered in precum made it easy for the penis head to go far enough in, meaning not actualy inside, but far enough to leave some precum in the entering of my rectum...

I don't know if i'm explaining myself right....

just picture how wet we were, i moved away as soon as i felt the pressure, it was less than a second, not enough time for him to even accomodate his penis to actually go in, my my *** (sorry for the description) was slippery, and so the tip of the penis, probably 1/5 or 1/6 of it might have slipped easily and far enough to leave some precum in the "entrance" of my rectum.
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Oral is not a risk. If he entered you (which you should know if it happened) then it is a risk.
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