Pl help

[gaandu1680]

Hi,

please review my situation. I had been a dumb *** by indulging in various sexuala activities.Though i always tried to use condom.Over the last three months i have exposure in which i had taken oral as well as insertive sex with SW.I used condom though for oral sex then in insertive sex also i used condoms.

In today's exposure in which i asked SW to give me oral for 5 minutes or so in which she firstly kissed my whole body then she put on condom and gave me oral sex for 5-10 minutes.Then i asked her to put on another condom on that one which she did and we had sex for about a minute or so.I once pulled out to check for breakage but did not noticed .After 1-2 minutes i lost erection because of nervousness and eventually she took out the condoms with her hand and gave me hand job to finish.

I am worried because as there was very dim light i could not see whether the condom broke or not i asked her she said that i did not break.Had the condom broke she would have noticed but i m very afraid as she was laughing

I am also worried because i when having insertive sex i checked for breakage and touched condom with bare hands,with the same hands i touched mu pennies head as well when she took out the condoms.This could result in touching my pennies head by hand in which her vaginal fluids might have been there.

Please help me and review my situation i also want to add during having brief insertive sex for minute or so, i noticed some awful smell coming from her vagina which insisted me not to continue with sex.But till that time i had sex for a minute or so.Please help and review i would be grateful to you all. Do i need testing? If yes then when?Thanks

[raj93]

No these are not ars signs.

You have nothing to do with hiv

Move on!!!!

[gaandu1680]

Today i am experiencig bowel movements as well as slight throat pain.Lost 1-2 Kgs weight as well.Dont know why this is happening??Please are these ARS signs??

[RainLover71]

Go see your doctor and sort this out--nothing to do with HIV because you had no risk.

[gaandu1680]

Sorry for keep coming back i had a similar exposure two weeks back where i had taken protected oral as well and with two cpndoms i had vex for about 10 minutes today i m feeling bowel movements with slight back ache.I do not understand why? Are they associated with the exposure i had? Pl reply

[diver58]

As you were told, unproetcted oral and protected vaginal sex is No risk. No! Two condoms together have more risk of failure due their mutual friction

[gaandu1680]

Does two condoms usage mimimises risks More so if both does not break?

[raj93]

If a condom breaks it can be felt,

A condom break is CATASTROPHIC


The hand touching or watever it is, it is not a risk for hiv.

You dont need to test.

Move on!!!!

[gaandu1680]

please?

[gaandu1680]

Thanks but i not sure about the condom status really i asked SW to check but she did not and said not to worry as it is broken.More over i had brief period of insertive sex may be for minute or so then i stopped.May b i did not wanted to continue.I wasnt feeling good from inside.More over i am concerned about the hand touching vaginal fluids then with same hand i touched my shaft head,thats also worrying me.

please answer

[raj93]

No you never had an exposure.

If the condom had broken you will know it.

So you dont need to test regarding this incident.

USE CONDOMS for penetrative sex and you will remain hiv negative!!!!

Good luck!!!!