with the one before and my results came back negative. i can't help worring about it and the other one told me he gets tested regularly. and yeah I know people say stuff like that and they could be lying but is there still a chance i may have it even if there was no fluids exchanged? im getting tested in 2 days, if it comes back positive would i still be able to have children without spreading it or have sex
The chances of catching HIV from a single unprotected sex act if he was HIV+ is 1/1000 (probably less than this since he didn't ejaculate).
If you use a condom, HIV can't infect the other person.
To have a baby, there's artificial insemination and medications you can take to keep it from spreading to the child, but I don't know a lot about either of these topics.
I highly doubt you'll have to worry about it anyways. HIV prevalence in the general pop (not gay / not drug user / not prostitute) is somewhere around 1 in 1000.