Teak And every one plz

[Veryworry2]

Dear all,

I was in manila 5 days ago and i found a gay then i took him with me..
he started to do massage for me on my legs and then moved to my penis .
he started hand job for about 1 min. the he stuck it in his mouth for 15-20 seconds..
then took it away and again he placed it for same time .. then he asked me to move to other place coz he is shy of my friend .. then we moved to the tolite and in that time i cleaned my penis with a towel .. i didnt notic any blood .. 
then in the bathroom i completed handjob by my self ..
i asked him if he have any stds he said no and he said he get tested 2 weeks do he can get a visa to japan..

i checked his mouth which was clear no sores or cuts..

then we were texting asking him about if he has stds he sawir that he dont have and he is careing for him self too ..
he asked me to pay for his test if i dont belive him .. but i was going the next morning ..

now after reading alot of posts here in medhelp and dr.s answers i know it should be zero risk but i can sleep and keep thinking of what i did ..

as i didnt have any problem in urination i did have sex with my wife..
and omg every time i look to her face i imagin my self geting her hiv ..

i didnt have any sexual out side my married exept one time it was in 2008 protected sex and i did alot of tests and i get my self relived .. but now i can do that ..
i even cant sleep well and keep thinking in this and my body gets hot every time i think in this problem ..

Dr.
As u every time say that HIV is killed in saliva .. how is that profed ?

Do i need to be this much worry ? 

I am  awaer that it could be killed but still have this fewling that i will be wrong .

I did a test today ( 6 days post ) It came neg for HIV, Hep B , Hep C , Syphlis and urin analisys ..

Can i put my self as like 25% of ppl who will be discovered as mostly they say 50% will be discovered in 2 weeks.
I keep thinking that i might be infected and i cant sleep well..
Did i put my self and my wife in risk of HIV?

Thank you

[Veryworry2]

Lizzie , thank you for your answer ..

i really understand yoi very well .. but still the hell other sites keep telling that oral sex can transmit hiv..

i really have problem in sleeping and headache is killing me

[LIZZIE LOU]

hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

nothing that you have described put you at risk for contracting hiv.

you CANT pass hiv onto your wife if you DONT have it.