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To Lizzie-Teak and other knowledge people.
My question is:
I am a hetro guy who had sex with a HIV+ it was all protected Vaginal-anal-oral all with condom. But i found out that she had gingivits in her mouth so she was bleeding while we kissed. And one more thing when i got out of her i forgot to hold on the condom to so so of her vaginal fluids got on my penis. and since day one i have been constantly Anxity,stressed.
Symptoms:
Week 1: sweating,difcult to swoll my own saliva.
Week 2-3: Swollen lymfenode,headache,rashes.
Week: 4: more swollen lymfenode.
Now at week 14: 1 more swollen lymfenode. all located i same area back of the head behind the ear and my doctor have said they are swollen. I Have readed some of the postes here and they are nearly the same as mine problem.
Testes: i dont no what generation of Antibodi test it is.
29 days test: Antibodi - Negativ (4week)
39-40 days test: Antibodi - Negativ (6week)
75-78 days test Antibodi - Negativ (11week)
1: What are my riskes?
2: And why do i have theese symptoms like swollen lymfe node could it be because of stress,anxity?
3: How good are my testes?
4: Should i take a test again?
Please answer my questions 1-4! thx
I am a hetro guy who had sex with a HIV+ it was all protected Vaginal-anal-oral all with condom. But i found out that she had gingivits in her mouth so she was bleeding while we kissed. And one more thing when i got out of her i forgot to hold on the condom to so so of her vaginal fluids got on my penis. and since day one i have been constantly Anxity,stressed.
Symptoms:
Week 1: sweating,difcult to swoll my own saliva.
Week 2-3: Swollen lymfenode,headache,rashes.
Week: 4: more swollen lymfenode.
Now at week 14: 1 more swollen lymfenode. all located i same area back of the head behind the ear and my doctor have said they are swollen. I Have readed some of the postes here and they are nearly the same as mine problem.
Testes: i dont no what generation of Antibodi test it is.
29 days test: Antibodi - Negativ (4week)
39-40 days test: Antibodi - Negativ (6week)
75-78 days test Antibodi - Negativ (11week)
1: What are my riskes?
2: And why do i have theese symptoms like swollen lymfe node could it be because of stress,anxity?
3: How good are my testes?
4: Should i take a test again?
Please answer my questions 1-4! thx
Minehelp, you won't be the first person in the world to get infected by kissing. Move on, or seek professional psychiatric help.
THX FOR THE ANSWER SNIPPET! i have seen some of your other postes and i TRUST! you as much as Teak-Lizzie.!
So my 75 days test prove that i didnt Catch HIV Right?... is as conclusiv as 12 weeks? and why is it they say 12 weeks?
I Havent had sex or anything or taked any medicine. in the 75 days i had the test... if that make a difrrent.
So my 75 days test prove that i didnt Catch HIV Right?... is as conclusiv as 12 weeks? and why is it they say 12 weeks?
I Havent had sex or anything or taked any medicine. in the 75 days i had the test... if that make a difrrent.
The symptoms have nothing to do with HIV. Your 11 week test proves it. MOVE ON. If you can't, then possibly consider therapy and/or medication.
Yes i have knowed the girl for many years and she had been transmitted by her ex boyfriend because the guy founded out that she have tryed to find a other boy that was the main reason that he gave her HIV... They were together in 4 mounts and the guy knew that he was HIV+ But didnt said it to her...
SO NOT HER FALL!!! AND I STILL LOVE HER.. But i can really have sex with her anymore.. because of anxity,stress she told me all for some times ago.
But that was not my questions the qustion is:
Sorry i am asking again i can fell small lymfenodes under my arms... is that normal and when do you know they are swollen? i can feel some on my neck to they are not big i can just feel them is that normal?... and why did i got 1-2 swollen lymfenodes 3-4 weeks after the expoure. and can i trust my 75-76 days test i thought it was 12 weeks but found out i still needed to wait 7-8 days.. and can this make a change? that i thought it was 12 weeks but founded out that it was only 75days
SO NOT HER FALL!!! AND I STILL LOVE HER.. But i can really have sex with her anymore.. because of anxity,stress she told me all for some times ago.
But that was not my questions the qustion is:
Sorry i am asking again i can fell small lymfenodes under my arms... is that normal and when do you know they are swollen? i can feel some on my neck to they are not big i can just feel them is that normal?... and why did i got 1-2 swollen lymfenodes 3-4 weeks after the expoure. and can i trust my 75-76 days test i thought it was 12 weeks but found out i still needed to wait 7-8 days.. and can this make a change? that i thought it was 12 weeks but founded out that it was only 75days
Hi,
Jus to comment on what you said......
"Plus what the hell are you doing having sex with someone you know has HIV? "
This is not fare for those who have HIV, because as long as you protect urself you will be fine....don't kil the people because they have teh virus, remeber they could have been born with it...not their fault.
Thanks,
FWK
Jus to comment on what you said......
"Plus what the hell are you doing having sex with someone you know has HIV? "
This is not fare for those who have HIV, because as long as you protect urself you will be fine....don't kil the people because they have teh virus, remeber they could have been born with it...not their fault.
Thanks,
FWK
Sorry i am asking again i can fell small lymfenodes under my arms... is that normal and when do you know they are swollen? i can feel some on my neck to they are not big i can just feel them is that normal?... and why did i got 1-2 swollen lymfenodes 3-4 weeks after the expoure. and can i trust my 75-76 days test i thought it was 12 weeks but found out i still needed to wait 7-8 days.. and can this make a change? that i thought it was 12 weeks but founded out that it was only 75days
i seriously doubt she was bleeding while you kissed...
regardless of what you "think" were your risks...you have an 11 week negative test result that is NOT going to change. consider yourself negative...put this behind you...and move on with your life.
no what ifs or buts...you do NOT have hiv :)
regardless of what you "think" were your risks...you have an 11 week negative test result that is NOT going to change. consider yourself negative...put this behind you...and move on with your life.
no what ifs or buts...you do NOT have hiv :)
I meant a .9999999999 percent chance of NOT having it. You have a betting chance of becomeing the president of the US
Hey whats up Minehelp,
I understand your concern.
I am no expert but I copied and pasted some info from, I guess a dr. he sais he is, from this site These are the accuracy for testing:
3-4 weeks 75% of the positive test will be .
6-8 weeks 98-99 % accurate
3 months is 100% accurate,
And then if she was in fact HIV and you had unprotected sex you are looking at a 1/2000 chance. I believe getting it from kissing is way more unlikely even than the 1/2000. Now you also tested negetive at 11 weeks so your looking at .99 acuracy. But remember you only had a 1/2000 chance with unprotected sex so your looking at some astronomical odds of having it! .0005 X .00001 so your like a .999999999999 chance of having it. So I am not doing exact math here but you have like a one in a million chance of having it.
Plus what the hell are you doing having sex with someone you know has HIV?
I understand your concern.
I am no expert but I copied and pasted some info from, I guess a dr. he sais he is, from this site These are the accuracy for testing:
3-4 weeks 75% of the positive test will be .
6-8 weeks 98-99 % accurate
3 months is 100% accurate,
And then if she was in fact HIV and you had unprotected sex you are looking at a 1/2000 chance. I believe getting it from kissing is way more unlikely even than the 1/2000. Now you also tested negetive at 11 weeks so your looking at .99 acuracy. But remember you only had a 1/2000 chance with unprotected sex so your looking at some astronomical odds of having it! .0005 X .00001 so your like a .999999999999 chance of having it. So I am not doing exact math here but you have like a one in a million chance of having it.
Plus what the hell are you doing having sex with someone you know has HIV?
Are im fine???... sorry for my anxity,stress its killing me.. i cant get of the net because of it... how good is my 11 weeks test?...
Hehe i do not + i havent had any sex during this time or taking any medicin i just have stayed neutral or havent any other sex expoures. (:
So i can trust my 11 weeks test right?.
AND AGAIN THX FOR THE ANSWER!
And what is ur background in HIV?..
So i can trust my 11 weeks test right?.
AND AGAIN THX FOR THE ANSWER!
And what is ur background in HIV?..
Hi,
Your tests show that you are not infected. A 11 week test is almost conclusive unless you have a immunosuppressed system ( meaning.. you have undergone chemoptherapy etc..)..
You do not have HIV.. Stay well..
K
Your tests show that you are not infected. A 11 week test is almost conclusive unless you have a immunosuppressed system ( meaning.. you have undergone chemoptherapy etc..)..
You do not have HIV.. Stay well..
K
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