Hello, all.
I want to make this quick - I am experiencing certain symptoms that are making me very frightened that, after 12-14 years, my idiotic behavior has caught up with me. Let me explain this in a list format.
Symptoms
-Moderate Fatigue
-General aches & pains
-Muscle weakness/atrophy
-Depression
-Trouble concentrating
-First ever shingles outbreak 12/2017
-Painful lymph nodes, sometimes swollen
-Gastroinetstinal issues (often diarrhea, but not always)
Idiotic Acts & Time Period
-Unprotected vaginal sex with cheating boyfriend / 14 years ago
-Broken condom with random male during vaginal sex, unprotected blow job after, spit out / 12 years ago
-Unprotected vaginal sex one time with known promiscuous male / 12 years ago
-Unprotected blowjobs, multiple times, uncircumsized, his female partner was known opiod user (pill form) / 8 years ago
-Unprotected blowjobs, 6 times, male did not finish, PROTECTED vaginal sex, somewhat promiscuous male / 8 years ago
I am beyond ashamed of and infuriated with myself for this absolute lunatic level of behavior in my younger years. As messed up as I was in my head, there is still simply no excuse...
I have never been tested for HIV, and have never displayed any symptoms until 2017. I am also morbidly obese for a female of my height and frame - I only bring this up because I believe by this point, were I to be HIV infected, I would be entering or already in the AIDS wasting phase of the disease.
I understand that I NEED to be tested and plan to be, but I must wait until I either have the money to purchase an at home kit, or can discreetly make my way to a clinic. I am currently unemployed and living with family that will destroy me if they were to find out I even went to get tested.
Thank you to anyone who takes time to read this nonsense and bothers to answer.