Why can't you tell me?

[David2001]

I've been waiting direly for someone to ***** my risk since I'm not an expert and not only do I get Captain Obvious kind of responses that I should require testing only for the peace of my mind but now I'm getting my post deleted? Why is everyone here so ignorant? Tell all of you what: I can't get a test for the peace of my mind because I don't even currently know if my risk is real or not. I've seen hundreds of people on this forum obsessing over silly risks while MY RISK is more of a risk than anything else SO why don't you help me?

[Vance2335]

HIV aspect..yes

[David2001]

So, I can have unprotected sex with my girlfriend without any worry?  

[Vance2335]

I have answered that you had no risk.

[David2001]

Final question after which I close this thread: Can I take your word and have sex with my girlfriend without taking a test because there's absolutely no chance I have HIV?

[Vance2335]

You had no HIV risk as you have been told. STD info post in the STD forum.

[David2001]

can i safely have unprotected sex with my girlfriend who i know for a long time, then? :\ i mean, another reason why I may be stressing out is because I'm in a long-term relationship and before that, I used to visit escorts ( and I think it could be a bit of guilt in this).. i only want to move on with my life and close the CSW chapter and leave it behind me.

[Vance2335]

condom slipped but statyed on the penis....NO RISK.

Yes that is accurate info.

[David2001]

even if the condom slipped? I read several times on this forum that HIV dies after it leaves the body, is that information accurate?

[Vance2335]

Symptoms mean nothing. The answers you received will not change

[David2001]

Thanks Vance. But what about my symptoms? I mean, should I still be scared of HIV regardless of the exposure? My condom always remained intact, though I remember once that I may have accidentally put it upside down after it slipped but that is no risk, right?

[Vance2335]

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Deadly-scared-help/show/2565125#post_12478994

[Vance2335]

You had no risk

[David2001]

So, what is my risk? Should I take a test?

[David2001]

protected intercourse and unprotected oral with CSW ( 5-6) in a timeline of 4-5 years.. I wouldn't have posted my concerns if I haven't experienced symptoms such as weight loss( dropped from 69-70 kg to 65-66 in months only).. also, I have balanitis and experienced not long ago a chest rash which was widespread :/

[diver58]

What was your exposure?