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[jjak]

Live in Alaska, and visited one of those Asian Massage places.  I am 32 male.  I was naked with a towel over me while she used baby oil to give massage.  
I dont know why but after about 25minutes I grabbed her breast, which then she proceeded to give me a handjob.  She was fully clothed and I didnt notice any blood on her hand.
She gave me a handjob until I ejaculated to which she cleaned me up with a towel.
She didnt speak much english, so I dont know her HIV status.
with my wife.  I see many people have similar issues but I dont want to pass any STD and HIV to my wife.  I didnt sleep at all last night and feel like I cannot wait the 6 weeks to get tested.

[Hope242]

Makes no difference. NO RISK. You do not need to worry.

[bigboss123]

Dude you had no risk let it go!

[NickOne7]

NO RISK means NO RISK, Simple as that

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[jjak]

U agree Teak/Lizzie?

[NickOne7]

NO!

[jjak]

I just want to knwo for my piece of mind.

I just need to know if she was positive and gave me a handjob does it change the situation?

[Teak]

No. You didn't have a risk. Now move along.

[jjak]

can you atleast answer my last post?

[Teak]

Move along, you didn't have a risk and you have already been advised of not having a risk so no matter what type of spins you want to add to your questions the answers are not going to change.

[jjak]

But if she had blood on her hands, and touched me on my uretha wouldnt that be exchange of fluids?
I cant stop thinking about this, and spending too much time onthe computer.

What if she was postive, does this change anyones opinions?

[NickOne7]

You have nothing to worry about here, Continue sex with your wife. As you were told HIV is not spread in the way you describe.

Hope this helps

[Hope242]

No, not at all. You had no risk. Exchanging fluids inside the vagina/anus.

[jjak]

But there was seman, I mean I ejac with her touching me.  If she had cuts would that be exchanging fluids?

[Hope242]

No...touching your penis will not cause HIV.

[jjak]

I got tested for I don't know, yesterday which was negative.  They gave me a test from my request so I can ask the massage girl to take.  
If it returns + , will your opinion change?

[jjak]

She could have had cuts on her hands , I didn't pay attention.  It went to fast.

[diver58]

You never had a risk of HIV through breast touching and "happy ending". Everyone should know that hand to genitals, oral sex and mutual masturbation are all zero risk activities. Please note,,, NOT SLIGHT RISK, BUT ZERO RISK.

[ricky_id]

GPs may call it risky but not with HIV experts.

[jjak]

I do feel guilty, but more afraid of contracting HIV.   I mean she could have had cuts on her skin....she could of gotten somethign down my uretha?

[bigboss123]

There is no risk of HIV from a handjob. I take it your feeling guilty about going to a massage parlor. But not worrie you are okay.

[grants365]

Sorry for hujackin, this was for http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/HIV-and-Massae-Exp/show/1468497

[grants365]

Is there even a slight risk?  I mean I just had sex witth my wife.

[joggen]

Your doctor doesn't know what he's talking about. The only sexual activities that have been proven to transmit HIV are unprotected vaginal or anal sex.

[jjak]

Doctor locally said it's still a sexual activity and a risk, confused.
I don't want to get HIV