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anal frottage?

Hello everyone here,

I'm a 25 year old gay guy and I hope you guys can provide me with some much needed info and help.

I like to believe I'm always very careful and practise safe sex...but I'm not so sure anymore...so please help!

Two days ago I was at a gay sauna. I was sitting in the Jacuzzi/whirpool and I was making out/french kissing with a guy. Suddenly he started to dry hump me and he put my legs on his shoulders. It happend very fast and it didn't last that long (maybe a few minutes), because I told him to stop 'cause it didn't feel right and safe. Now I'm scared that his dick came in touch with my anus... I can't really remember feeling his dick, but I do remember him dry humping...and I think it was a case of frottage. He didn't cum, but I'm scared his dick got in....but if that was the case I must have felt that, right?

I'm not used to bottom (only did that one time (safe!), and that was pretty painful) so I should have noticed if he was trying to get his dick in. Maybe it was just between my buttcheeks....is that still safe? Without going further? I just don't really know what happened...
I'm trying to tell myself it could not be in my anus, because I must have felt that and I think it would be difficult because of the water...but i'm not sure...

Is frottage (his dick between my buttcheeks) still save? Or did I have a risk?

What do you think?
Hope you guys can help me!

Thanks!
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Reread what you were already advised.
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Could somebody please answer my last question? Teak, anyone?

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And you say that frottage is not a risk? considering it also was in water and that I should have felt it when he entered me?

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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
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Thanks guys for your answers.

Could you guys (Teak) explain me why in my case I didn't have an exposure?

thanks...still worried here
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Move along.
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You are very unlikely to catch hiv from this exposure if you are really worried then go for a test 12 weeks after exposure in my opinion you are negative
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You never had an exposure.
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