everything ok?

[kilimanja]

hey guys !! need your help with something...

One week ago I had sex with 2 CSW. Here is my story..
I got into a restroom with both girls. NO kissing, NO oral, NO fingering of any kind.

First Girl: I was never completely hard (penis). Put on a condom and started vaginal sex with her standing up, but it was very unconfortable so I decided to seat in the closed toilet and she started again being on top.
As I said I was almost not hard at all (it felt more like kind of a frottage than actual intercourse, but i suppose that I was inside of her at some level, really cant tell) After a minute or something I heard a little "pop" sound and said "wait !!, let me check", everything looked fine. 1 or 2 minutes later I decided to stop as my penis finally died completely. No ejaculation.
Once again the condom looked find and my penis head looked covered. I removed it very carefully and throwed it away. I must say I never felt anything wet or any change in feeling while with her.

Then the second chick started to masturbate my bare penis with her hand, this time it got harder, new condom on, started vaginal sex again in the toilet. When felt like cumming, I decided to pull it out and she helped me finish mastubating me with condom still on.
This time Im pretty confident that condom was ok, semen on its bag, etc etc.
Throwed it away, had a shower. End of story.

PLease help me understand the following. My main concerns are related to girl #1:

Considering that with girl #1 my penis was almost not hard at all, both times when I checked (when the poppy sound and at the end) the condom looked fine convering my head but kind of shrinked, so now Im sick with fear thinking that maybe the condom could have failed but I didnt notice it the whole process because of being shrinked because of my soft penis. I didnt check filling it with water.

1. could have it failed without me noticing it? what about the poppy sound? if failed, should I have noticed it?
2. if failed, what is my risk for HIV considering my story?
3. What about vaginal fliud from girl #1 in my penis and then masturbated by girl #2?
4. do I need to test? I have an stable couple. can I continue having unprotected sex with her with no concerns?

THanks for your help





Thanks
kili

[Teak]

Reread the replies that you have already received.

[kilimanja]

hey teak

I would love to hear your assesment

txs

[kilimanja]

teak,
please can you also give me your comments?

[joggen]

As you were told, you would know if the condom broke. You did not have a risk for HIV from protected sex, do not need testing, and should just forget about this and move on with your life.

[kilimanja]

hey ! any answer? someone help !! any more comments?? please help !

[kilimanja]

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[kilimanja]

Thanks Lizzie

am I being irrational? have you heard about infections related to extenuating circumstances like this? Condom broke without notice?

In terms of probabilities, should I be managing the ZERO-risk figure?

Can I have sex with my gf without any worry?

[LIZZIE LOU]

as long as the head of MR WILLIE was covered...you were protected.

[kilimanja]

Thanks for your answer lizzie.
I get what you say. But my concern is related with 2 things:

- Not being hard - condom shrinked over my penis.
- No ejaculation, so no evidence of no lickage.

is it possible that it failed but because of me being soft and becuase it was more like a frottage than an intercourse, it was not destroyed, only damaged unnoticeably?


please help!

Could had broke in the bottom shaft part? the one you dont see while seeing yourself from above?

[LIZZIE LOU]

condom failure is nothing you have to second guess about...it's CATASTROPHIC ! !

you had no risk and do not need testing