french kiss?

[le_ciel]

Hi everbody, ı want to ask a question which may have already been asked. My question is about deep french kiss. 19 days ago ı kissed a girl which ı dont know very well. And after one week we kissed deeply again. There is no oral or vaginal sex, just deep kissing. I felt her saliva on my lips. Since last week, ı  have fever and as far as ı can feel, ı have swollen glands and shore throat. I went to doctor and he said that there is nothing to worry about. He said “you have fever beacause of pharyngitis.”   Am ı anxious to worry about hiv? Which tests do you advise me and when?

[le_ciel]

ok ok ok...

[LIZZIE LOU]

do you just want me to report you???  MOVE ON!!!  you've been told that you were NEVER at risk

[le_ciel]

as ı said ı took the test HIV p24 Ag+IgG Combi and it is negative. is it ok? what about timing? thanks for help...

[le_ciel]

OK OK..you are right but...
if ı get pos. ı will share it with you but if it is negative, thanks for your help

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[le_ciel]

ı got tested.. ı took the test HIV p24 Ag+IgG COmbi today and also ı am going to get the results today. today, it is the 25 th day of first kiss and 18 th of the second. ı know that you just laugh at me but ı am still worried. is this the right test ı got? if ı got negative is this enough?

[siteheld]

I understand what you are saying.  I am pretty sure you did not get infected but somehow in your mind you think you did. Been there. You have lost all rational and  now your anxiety has brought on all the signs. I had all of them.
You are right. Only a test will ease your mind. YOU DON'T NEED TO GET TESTED but if you are a worrier go ahead.
Next time make sure you don't put yourself in this situation again. You know better than us what will make you worry.

[le_ciel]

ok. ı am not going to ask any question about kissing.. but ı am still worried:(!!

thanks..

[Teak]

After 30 years of study you won't be the first. MOVE ON.

[le_ciel]

thanks a lot again but why are you so reluctant to talk about the types of tests and their timing? am ı doing sth wrong to get tested? i know that it is not possible to get rid of anxiousness unless ı get tested..

sorry, ı know that you say that ı do not have any risk.. but again ı tell you that is not important what my risk was.. what if ı am the first, by kissing?:(.( in my country ıt is too hot and ı have fever for one and a half week....(

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk of contracting HIV and you don't need testing. If you are ill, see your doctor. It has nothing to do with HIV.

[le_ciel]

thank you very much for your interest and ı know that you are tired of questions in this way such as kissing, hand shaking etc. but, after one point, it is not important how your risk was. ı just think that what if ı am infected...

Retournons à nos moutons, 21 days ago (and again one week after this)  ı kissed (but no other forms of sex) a girl deeply whom ı didn't know at that time. as ı was tested one year ago for another kind of suspicion about hiv and got negative and as being experienced!!! about hiv, i did not kiss her after brushing my teeth, or ı think so..

she is not CSW, pros. or etc. but i do not know her sexual activities before me.

now, ı have fever for one and a half week and in this period of time ı am also weak and ı have sore throat..these symphtomps began to occur after 9 days from the first deep french kiss. and ı don't think that it's going to end one day:((

of course ı went to doctor and he checked oout my lymph nodes at the neck and said "you have fever becasue of pharyngitis"

the doctors on the other forums of this website, they say that there is no infection caused by kissing even if there was blood or open sore in the mouth in the literature.

but ı want to be tested.. which tests do you advise me and when? doctors usually dont prefer PCR for diagnose..then, combination or single blood test?

pls, ı waiting for response..

[Teak]

You don't need to test. NO RISK..

[siteheld]

I deep kissed someone whom tested positive two days later. I worried for three months. I am happy to say that I did test negative. I just tested again after 7.5 months. I am still negative. Three months is conclusive. You will be ok.

[le_ciel]

thanks for your comment.

but ı am still worried about if there was bleeding during the kiss.

[Teak]

You did not have a risk. Saliva is not infectious.