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from India.had safe sex with a PRO..bt these immediate symptoms freaking me out

im from India..i had sex with this sex worker 9 days back in Sonagachi,Kolkata,India..it was my first time in life with a CSW. she was 20 years old and looked clean.i didn't kiss in her lips but kissed in her forehead,no sucking of nipple,didnt insert my finger in her genital and even when she offered me a blowjob i ve just rejected it..she shaked my penis for a while.then i wore the 1st condom .Then she helped me to wear the 2nd one over it..i had vaginal sex with her lasted around 5 min.when i cum in the condom i removed it form the vagina ..after a while she hold the brim of the condom and removed it...she washed first from a bucket of water and i used the same mug to took water and washed my penis and scrotum..wiped it with my shirt..
     But after one day i started worrying about this incident and felt so guilty and even looked for ARS symptoms in the net..in the very next day i started paining my neck,had loss of apetite,abdominal pain,headache,fatigue,insomina,diarrhoea,blurring of vision,palpitaton,on and off fever,and a dry mouth. its on going for the last 8 days....its freaking me out..i feels like i'm finished...i dont wanna die,,did a great mistake.....wont do it again...
  did a handjob can spread the disease?did washing from same water can spread it,did any chance of getting the virus in to my body through the meatus when i washed the penis?there was no cuts and wounds in my genital area..
i also getting an impulse like feeling where the sublingual and submandibular lymph nodes are located...i m so much scary rt now.... please rply me,,,,am i infected..
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No
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.is there any chance of getting hiv through the external meatus of the penis while washing the penis after vaginal protecetd sex with a prostitute...im so anxious..Had fever a ,diarrhoe and ear pain afetr 10 days days of protected sex...im from india she shaked my penis with bare hand for about one minute,,she said i was her 5th costomer of that day...i was so stupid....it was the only sexual encounter with a pro in my life..i hav a girlfriend...no im so feared...;. Now i feels like my lymphnodes under the jaw isvenlarging and feels like suffocation..
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You aren't having ARS symptoms, you never had an exposure. Nothing that is going on with you has anything to do with HIV.
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pls some kind heart like teak,pls advice
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im so much scared and feels guilty,,,,is anxity can mimic the ars symptoms
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thank you...
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You do not have an HIV concern. If your symptoms are concerning you see a doctor, it has nothing to do with HIV.
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as far as i beleive i  the first one i ve introduced was correct,,,i believe..now the  syptoms just killing me...im afraid
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You never had an exposure but you do need to learn how to use a condom correctly.
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