I am HIV + and was getting a planned non-sexual massage. During the massage I had some pre-cum leak out even though I was not aroused/erect. The pre-cum got on the massage therapist hands which I didn't realize at the time. After the massage I had told the massage therapist that I was HIV + and they were upset telling me they got precum on their hands. They had washed their hands after the massage. I told them I didn't believe there was any risk to them. I wanted to verify this and should I have told the massage therapist prior to the massage even though it was suppose to be a non-sexual massage? I felt terrible like I did something bad or illegal by not telling them prior.
Thank you