test after 4 weeks?

[backtolifeyf]

Dear doctors,

thanks a lot for your generosity answering questions here... I'd appreciate if you can shed a bit light on my situation:
I had sex with a guy I know from internet dating. He's a white male from germany. I felt very very worried afterwards because I don't know about him to the degree that I could do such thing with him. We had protected vagina sex and he actually had his semen shoot outside my body when he came. There is also 2 mins unprotected cunnilingus and I performed oral (unprotected) on him for a few seconds at very beginning, no semen came out... I had a test in an asian country four weeks after, it's a screen test at Entry-Exit inspection and quarantine bureau, result negative... Now, 6 week after, I'm having swollen near my wisdom teeth area and consistant insomnia. I don't know if it's anxiety or what...

My question:

- How reliable is a test of 4 weeks?
- I'm rellocating to U.S. for work reason soon. Where could I get a reliable test? I was trying at a local hospital here, but felt very uncomfortable from the way that doctor looked at me, feels like I'm already a HIV carrier. I ended up not tested because the result takes too long while I'm leaving for U.S. soon.
- In U.S, is it illegal if you have HIV but dont tell your partner when you have sex? This guy is a lawyer and got his JD from U.S, so I suppose he should tell me if he has HIV?

Sorry for asking too much. Thank you a lot for your answer...

[backtolifeyf]

Thanks for the info you provided!
sorry to ask one more point, does the suggestion of testing outside U.S mean that my situation is pretty at risk of contracting HIV? I don't care about deport, if I had HIV, my life would totally be changed...

[Teak]

If he knows it's illegal. You might as well test there because if you test positive here you'll be deported.