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That is very sweet. I know what you mean. We've been there with my grandmother, though not about her heart. You would give anything to keep them by your side forever, but you would never want to see them suffer.
You're doing the right thing. I hope she keeps recovering nicely. And what matters most is that, whatever happens, she knows she has the love and support of her loved ones. That will make a huge difference.
Fran
Thank you - both of you. Your answer helps with the guilt and the comments from both of you gave me a little comfort. She has always been "small but mighty" and doesn't give up easily. (and she calls me stubborn :) )
My prayers are with you, your mother and your family during this difficult time. I have been there and I know the desire for someone to give you the answers you so desperately seek. I hope the doctors here are able to give you some sort of comfort.
Hello,
Will the pacemaker keep her heart going when perhaps it shouldn't?
You don't need to worry about this. Pacemakers improve quality of life and rarely prolong life. When the heart wants to stop, it usually does. Your concerns are very reasonble, but I do not think you need to worry about the pacemaker prolonging life when it shouldn't.
I hope this answers your question and I hope your mom is well soon.