Am I at risk for herpes?

[dantheman95]

I was receiving a lap dance from a nude stripper in my underwear and she was grinding so hard that my underwear came off. I don't believe that my penis ever touched her vagina but it may have touched her anus briefly and definitely touched everywhere else on her buttocks. She continued to grind until I ejaculated (she grinded so hard that my penis feels like it got a rug burn). I didn't notice any pimples, sores, lesions etc. anywhere on her body. Is it possible to get herpes in this situation? If so, what are the odds? Should I see a doctor and get tested? Thanks in advance.

[dantheman95]

Thanks.

[gracefromHHP]

herpes is not contagious 24/7365 by no means. you don't even know if this gal has herpes either.

[dantheman95]

Thanks for the info. A few more questions: If she didn't have any sores is that a good sign or does that mean nothing at all? And if she does have herpes does it have to be a certain time when they are contagious or it's always contagious? Does everyone who has herpes get them on their buttocks or is that not too common? Thanks again!

[gracefromHHP]

sounds like someone needs to teach that gal how to do a better lap dance ;)

normally I would say this wasn't too much worry abut you did have a heck of a lot of friction from the sounds of things. Unless you get obvious symptoms of a std though, you can't just run out and get tested now. you need to wait 3 months for herpes testing unless you get an obvious lesion to culture. also hpv is also a risk. no test for males unless you get an obvious wart to have removed.  There is a risk for gonorrhea, syphilis and chlamydia too but it's really not worth testing for them unless you get symptoms.

sorry but we can not put a % to your risk specifically.

grace

[dantheman95]

Also, if I didn't see any sores on the parts of her body that my genitals touched does that mean I most likely won't get it or does it not matter at all? I read that there is still a chance someone can get it but is that really just a minute chance? And what would you say the odds are that I will get herpes if she has it (percentage wise)? Would you say 50% percent or does a lot of things have to happen for me to get it (like my genitals have to touch the exact spots or it has to be during a certain cycle period)? Thanks again!

[dantheman95]

Thanks. How long would it take for me to break out with bumps or sores?

[amberette]

It is possible to get herpes if any infected area touched your genitals. I wouldn't really put alot of stress into it, unless you break out with bumps or sores. Than you should definitely go to the doctor.