Hello. I just had unprotected sex on sunday. Monday I felt a little soar down there thinking maybe it was just rough. By tuesday It hurt when I pee and I noticed little cuts. Tuesday night fever started 102. Wednesday the little cuts look like little balls. And all of a sudden I got my period (15 days early) I told the guy about what I was feeling he told me he didn't feel anything until a day after. It started burning him when he peed and a red rash. I'm confused as to if I have herpes? He didn't have anything, I didn't think I had anything either. Help.
pimples on your chest and back aren't herpes related.
it's good that you were seen and blood work and lesion cultures were done. while you are waiting for those to come back, your partner should seek out type specific herpes igg blood testing to see what their status is. also check to see if herpes testing was even included with your last std testing too. it's not a part of routine std testing but most providers never tell you that.
meanwhile, you hurt like heck no matter what is the cause - try simple things like soaking in the tub with epsom salts thrown in or a packet of aveeno bath. Also stop by the pharmacy and pick up a can of dermoplast spray ( the blue can for the genital area, not the red can ). You can also find it at most walmarts and such places too. It's typically under $10 and is a topical anesthetic you can spray on for pain relief several times a day. also , unless you have a medical reason not to, you can alternate tylenol with advil for pain relief similar to some narcotics without the unpleasant side effects of them. I.E. tylenol 1000mg at 6 a.m., 600mg advil at 9 a.m, tylenol at noon, advil at 3 p.m etc.
keep asking questions :)
grace