Just be careful you don't have so many cocktails, you make "bad" decisions and end up back here again....he he he
Drink one for me :)
grace
Shouting hoooray doesn't even come close to how relieved I am! A whole bunch of celebratory cocktails are definitely in order tonight!!
Thanks so much for all of your advice Grace! I wish I would have taken it in the first place, rather than having to go through the stress I've caused myself in the last 3 months. You were a big help in calming me down when things were getting rough ...
For anyone in a similar situation please learn from my mistakes. I drove myself absolutely insane thinking I had contracted herpes and possibly spread it to the love of my life. To me, the symptoms fit very well with herpes and I had convinced myself 300% I had contracted it. 3 Months of Drs visits (all telling me it wasn't herpes, but I just figured I was showing atypical symptoms), 2 swabs and 4 creams and 2 powders later I finally convinced a Dr to give me a type specific blood test. Results came back today, NEGATIVE. NO HSV Antibodies detected in my system ... I feel like such a fool; like I've lost the last 3 months of my life; which I basically have considering I've done nothing but think/worry about this on a constant basis.
Thanks again to Grace and whoever else has replied to my questions in the past!
antibodies develop regardless of when symptoms start. It's time to shout - hooray no herpes :)
If your doc is stumped, follow up with a dermatologist.
grace
Well, I got my blood results back and they found NO anti-bodies!! I'm absolutely thrilled! I'm still dealing with all of these issues below the belt, but conisdering it's not herpes I'm not even really concerned about it. Nothing the right cream won't fix I figure ......
One final question:
Given my possible exposure was about 4.5 months ago now, and my first symptoms started about 3 months ago, would I defintley have developed anti-bodies by now?
it really doesn't sound like herpes going on.
grace
Just wan update ...
I am awaiting the results of my igg (and IGM) test, this should be early next week.
BTW - this is yet another new dr, but he seemed to be pretty knowledgeable of HSV.
I am still having the symptoms mentioned above, with some additional issues.
I developed a very bad rash in between my legs, basically covering the whole perineum and in between my cheeks (it also start to come up around the base of my scrotum but not too far up my groin folds). This rash has a very defined edge, and basically appears as bright red scaly skin -- the skin seems to be completely peeled in this area as I can see a bit of a ridge of normal skin where the rash stops. I am thinking this is some form of jock itch as was the dr. This was extremely uncomfortable. Went to the docs, and he prescribed me some anti fungal cream w/ hydrocortizone in it. This seems to be helping the new rash, about 1 week in today. I am still experiencing sore type thing in the folds of the groin on either side; these don't ever blister or crust. They just start as sort of a rash with an open face (don't know how else to describe it, seems as though it just appears as if the top layer f skin is missing). These don't really cluster, but appear kind of sporadically up my groin folds. I had been applying powder to it as you suggested, which seemed to make things more comfortable but I have since stopped since I have the new anti fungal cream. The only reason I have stopped is because of how I mentioned that the jock itch (wishful thinking) was starting to come up just a bit in to the groin fold so I applied cream there as well.
I have also noticed, some red dots under my foreskin ... these don't have a white head, or puss or anything. About 4-5 of them ... they have since gone, but were there about a week and was slightly painful. Again, not if i was to touch them, but just throughout the day if it rubbed on my underwear or something. Could this be a yeast infection? Given I have what I hope is jock itch I am wondering if all this is due to a male yeast infection ...
Does any of this sound to be herpes? I was counting back, and the very start of this occurred 40 days after my possible infection. I know some people go years before they have a noticeable OB, but from everything I read the common window from infection to OB is up to 20 days. Can I at least take some assurance that this may not be herpes since it took 40 days to show?
I would just like to hear more of an opinion as this is has been a long week of waiting for my results and I still have one to go.
The last thing the Dr. said to me who ordered the tests was that the test may not give me the answer I'm looking for as 70% of the population has it. If I come back negative I will be dancing down the hallway out of that office, but with such a high percentage of people having it the odds are against me. If this is herpes, and i never have blisters or oozes to the point I can get a good swab how will I ever know if this is HSV in my groin area??
Thank you everyone.
I'd try just plain ole cornstarch out of the kitchen actually. You can also buy baby powders that are corn starch based too.
grace
Good idea ... I don't think my groin becomes overly moist though. I will certainly try it.
I will keep you posted of the results on the latest culture.
Could you recomend a good antifungal powder to use?
why not try sprinkling corn starch based powder on your genitals every morning before getting dressed and see if that helps? It'll absorb extra moisture as well as reduce the friction from your clothing rubbing too.
grace
Sorry for the spelling, doing this in my iPhone and it auto completes improperly sometimes.
Will do Grace, sorry about that. I'll post any updates here from now on.
LOL - I'll get in changing that icon ASAP!
I'm glad to hear you don't think this sounds related d to herpes. I just dnt know what the heck to think anymore ... This has gone on do long, it really is getting tiresome. Plus it's freaking me out due to my possible exposure.
I really felt this wasn't related ... But these things, on top of the burning that comes and goes in the genitals, I just don't know what else to think. I find my penis head to be very sensitive when brushing against my boxers at time. I am also finding my skin in general is dry - with little bits of rash (like very small pimples) popping up all over. Mainly on my thighs (below my boxers,
barely above knee) and arms and chest. They never burst or crust and rarely itch ...
I have not applied fucidin in some time.
Thanks so much Grace, I really appreciate all the help/advice you offer.
since you have male plumbing, might want to change your icon to male instead of female ;)
As is outlined in our read before posting post, it really helps us help you better if you just keep adding any new updates/comments/concerns to your original post instead of making a new one each time. Just keep adding any future updates to this one so that we keep it all in one - thanks!
What you are describing as having now doesn't really sound like herpes. I'd return to the clinic for another exam. Could be a folliculitis type infection still going on, fungal or any number of things including completely normal things that you are just noticing more than usual due to all the time you've been spending thinking about your nether regions too. You aren't still applying the fucidin are you?
grace
I want to add, I notice these pimples things under my foreskin to be sensitive, where as the shaft ones are not.
When I lightly brush them with my finger they seem fine, it's sensitive throughout the day - brushing against my boxers etc.
What makes me nervous re: misdiagnosis is things like this: on my 1st visit to the STD clinic I showed the local STD "expert" what I thought to be 3 small warts just below the foreskin. She looked very closely, and said "I think they're normal variances in your skin". Being they were new, I went to a walk in clinic and showed the dr. There. Not telling him of the previous diagnosis. Right away, "well those are warts". Had chryo and they have since fallen off.
Now, I know it's a matter of their educated opinions, but I don't understand how a supposed expert can miss something as simple as warts.